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I have a 23 year old sister who is pregnant. She wants me to help her adopt it out to a family. Where do I go to search for a family?

She is due June 20th. She is having a girl.

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There are people in the newspapers who are looking for babies. You could do some checking there. There are legit lawyers who deal with people really wanting babies. Also there is the Dept of families that have lists of people who truly want a baby. Once your sister makes her decision she must live by it and assume forever that her child has been adopted by loving parents. If she can't do that, just walk away, then she should keep it. I don't mean she needs to forget she had a baby, you can never forget someone you birthed, but have to accept that she will never know what happened to it. It is a hard decision to make. Good luck to her.

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thank you. she wants to adopt her baby out. she wants the parents who adopt to let her visit (maybe as a friend of the family) is there families that will allow that?
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Yes, in an open adoption :)
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You should go to adoption agency.

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I don't think u should put the child up for adaption plz don't allow it b/c they r not always treated right and is not loved and don't have a true parent they can rely on and it's ur made of u and its sad as a child they can't have their parent by their side when u did ask a family member 2 help out instead cause if u do put it up for adaption the parents don't love that baby who will soon suffer and plz reply back and tell me wat u think

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It's not her choice though its her sister's baby
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we have been debating on this since she found out she was pregnant. yes, this is a really hard decision for her as well as my husband and I. we have decided it's best for the baby.
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My husband and i are hoping to adopt and are working with an open adoption agency. If you'd like to learn more about us and the agency, please checkout our profile website at http://www.iheartadoption.org/users/nate-and-sara

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You can email us at nateandsara@live.com
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Have you found a family yet? We would love to meet you and your sister and your family to learn more about you! Where do you all live? We can travel to any state to adopt. We are open to an open adoption so you guys would be able to know your niece. We can send pics, letters, updates, and visit! Please email us for more info and checkout our link about us above. Hopefully we will hear from you soon :)
Nateandsara@live.com
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close your legs. poor baby

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