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if a guy protect a girl of same age and advice her all the time is he: in love with her,acting ,only think of her as a friend or sister?

he goes on like : no that guy is not good for u,dont say thag word it is bad(it is actually a bad word),u gotta study let me help u...
p.s. he is not bossy

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Seems to me he's just a nice guy. Doesn't mean he's in love with you, or thinks of you only as a sister.

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nice guy as a friend,right?
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It doesn't mean anything. He's just a nice guy in general. If you want to know if he likes you more than a friend, you have to ask him.
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good..thanks :)
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You're welcome :)
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He probably likes you

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Ummm ... hard to till at this point. These are things a good friend does yet the lover does too. However if he was an arab, he is doing it cause of his special feelings towards the girl ^^

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I think he cares for her more than just a friend Blue.How are you today friend...
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doing well sweet Australis what about you? :)
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Well i don't know but western guy's actions is confusing sometimes, but Arab's and i am saying it over a long experiance, they only do it if they like the girl other wise they don't give a damn :p
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I'm fine Blue.
Is that a good thing though Blue?I mean I've always had male friends and they were always caring and protective of me.Still are.
Where are you from Blue?That's if you don't mind me asking.
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Well ... ok having friends is a great thing BUT here in middle east we have boundries. A girl can't have male friends, therefore if an Arab man cared then know that it's cause of his feelings and am not saying only love, depends on this guy mintality, it could be anything (love,marriage,sex .. etc) the girl only can tell. I don't mind at all dear friend :) I am from KSA. However i believe am not for real :p
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Hi Blue.I didn't get notifications for this.I can't imagine how many I have missed from others as well.
I understand what you are trying to say.
How have you been?
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Hey girl :) been well thank you. I wasn't online yesterday been busy. Hope you are having a great day where ever you are :)
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I would say in this order...sister then friend then loves her.

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I left you another message at same spot. :)
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at which stage is he.. sister?
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He treats her as a sister if he is overly protective bit will let her go out with others if he approves of them. He is a friend if he is not as protective and let's her go out with who just wants unless they would be a danger to her safety. He would be a "loves her" if he sits her down and tells her his feelings and asks her if they can date just eachother . And he wouldn't have to be over protective like he is for a sister because they now and an agreement between eachother that they care for one another and they will trust each other, be kind and gentle, and respect her instead of bossing her around. Love NECER bosses anyone around . That's not true love, that's someone wanted to losses someone and control their actions, thoughts, and feelings. When those thing happens, it becomes a dangerous relationship because she is being emotionally abused which could lead to physical abuse because this person does not know the difference between love and control . Love NECER controls, ever. With love you both talk everything over and agree to be a safe person for her, not a xontollong unsafe person. Hope this makes sense-am tired.
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I would be friends with this guy. He seems like the nicest in the world. This doesn't mean he likes you. He just might want to see the best of you. But you never know.

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If he loves you he will make a move in time, just appreciate his brotherly help and be friends it will work out how it's supposed too

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in LOVE

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