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Good ideas..on how to tell my boyfriend im sorry..and forgive me?

He saw text from this Guy calling me Babe and love ect..i never called him Any nicknames back didnt flirt with him back..but he doesnt believe me.thinks i cheated on him.

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I'm not sure how he was able to get your number, but that first off doesn't look good for you. Then add a text with him calling you "babe". It doesn't look good for you. It would be difficult in his shoes to not be at least bothered. I'm not accusing you of anything, but it doesn't look good for you. Sit down and have a long, honest conversation with him.

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Maybe write him a letter of how much he means to you and that you're sorry?

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I personally think it should be face to face.
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ummm you should probably tell him that your really sorry and just be honest with him

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You could've done something - block him etc. ... How can he trust you again ? How can he believe in you again ? Once the trust is broken in a relationship you can't earn it back.

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write it down and just say what you feel and how much he means to you, if he feels the same, you'll both sort it out.

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He doesn't have trust maybe because he has been hurt in the past. Try telling him that you are not like his past relationship and you will not hurt him. :-)

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Hes as by lots of girls,but i didnt do anything.i love him..he know i do.and wouldnt intentionally do anything to hurt him. We ve been together a year and 4mnths and I've never cheated on him ever.
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That is good but unfortunately each person comes with "baggage" from past relationships. You are a great girlfriend. Just keep reassuring him. He will eventually see you are different then the others. Good luck to the both of you. :0)
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Thank you I hope he forgives me,I doubt we will ever be the same between us:(which will suck
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You may think that now, but with God ALL things are possible. If you two are meant to be, this could be a strengthening tool, a stepping stone to your future. Keep your head up. God bless you. :0)
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You have nothing to be sorry about. He doesn't own you and you can't control other boys. Or maybe you did do something...

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How did the other dude get your number????????

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Maybe that other dude is a co-worker or a friend.(but with a friend like that, who needs enemies)
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From some dumb homegirl.
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Sorry to say this, but if he doesn't trust you anymore, you're over. try talking to him in person and explain you don't know who that person is but if you know him you need to let your boyfriend know, you're not flirting, it's the other guy, if your boyfriend really loves you, he'll at least try to get to the bottom of this, if he doesn't, well... it's all over.

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Give him a hard nipple twist !!! Don't let go til he forgives you !!!!!best of luck

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