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In my opinion, I think that people make way too big of a deal bout being bisexual. If you love someone, you love them. You can't change that. Unless you try really hard. But the point is, it's not a big deal. ?

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I totally agree.
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Yes ... why not !
You can like whoever you want .

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Yea it's ok your just bisexual or you just like them as friends that's ok too

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Your choice to like different and same genders

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Sure

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No it's against the laws that God put in place for mankind



Understanding this, that the law is not laid down for the just but for the lawless and disobedient, for the ungodly and sinners, for the unholy and profane, for those who strike their fathers and mothers, for murderers, the sexually immoral, men who practice homosexuality, enslavers, liars, perjurers, and whatever else is contrary to sound doctrine,

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Are you sayin it's wrong to be who you are? To love life? To be happy? I think God also wants everyone to love each other. Who cares what someone else does because it really is there choice.
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If God is real he created everything and everyone how he meant them to be created. Why would he make gay and bi people just to send them to hell? SO because he has made so many gays and bi and whatever else is out there I doubt that it is against the laws that God put in place for mankind.
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Comparing bisexuality to a freaking murderer?!?! I'm a full-blooded Christian but that bisexuality and homosexuality is a sin is a bit ridiculous. Besides, it's in human nature to sin. Unavoidable.
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I agree with you KennaNichols! I have friends that are gay and I love them to death because they are so sweet, but I do not believe in their choice to be gay. I think that they won't go to hell unless they are not Believers in Jesus and believe in Him being the Son of God and dying on the cross for our sins; but it is still a sin just like murdering, lying, dishonoring your parents, etc. God still loves them because everyone sins, but He doesn't love their choice of life to be gay/bi. This sin is no worse then any other and not better then any other sin. Although, God does still not like it even though He still loves them as a person.
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Doesn't god want us to be what we want and to help us? that makes no sense and that's completely irrelevant to my question
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If god didn't want gay, lesbian, or bisexual people they would've never existed.
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For all you people that don't like what KennaNichols said, he is right. God gave people free choice, which is why there are unchristian people out there, why there are gays and lesbians and so on. He wants people to love them on their own, with the help of the holy spirit. He knows what will happen, because he is omniscient, but he still loves every single person too much to deny them their chance in life. Satan is trying as hard as he can to turn people from the one true faith, and because of these kinds of people, he is succeeding.
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Melmel_741 - God didn't want murders, thieves, and people like that either, but they still exist. Gays, Lesbians, etc. exist because he created them, but they chose to be gay and lesbian just like some people choose to steal and lie. God still loves them, but he doesn't love how they chose to be gay and lesbian just like how he doesn't love how some people lie and steal.
And Melanee917 - I mean no disrespect to you, but when you asked the question, you had to expect answers like these. KennaNichols was answering what you asked in the way that she believes. The answer is actually relevant to the question because she was answering the question.
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I say that people are people and all people are different. If people weren't different this whole world would be very plain. I think that being you is a great thing and that you should be who you want to be. No one can stop you from being you.
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Being Gay/Lesbian isn't a choice KRose5388. Your born that way.
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TaylorF: I mean no disrespect to you, but that is your opinion. My opinion on the matter is that you choose to be bi/gay. Although I respect how you are standing up for what you believe in, I just have a different view on the topic.
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I wish there was a dislike button for answers..
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KRose5388:no disrespect taken. we all have our own opinions and view. If we didn't everybody would be the same. Henceforth life would be boring.
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Assassin, if you were a true Christian you would know that it is a sin to be homosexual/bisexual!! Sinning is avoidable some ppl just don't try hard enough to avoid it! It's your choice to do what's wrong, and most ppl know when they're doing something wrong!
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Its perfectly fine! Im not Bisexual, but I can still look at a guy and tell if he's "cute" or not... Plus, this hole gay rights thing thats sweeping the nation with probobly make you less afraid to tell anyone you think that way.

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It's fine! It just means your bi. watch "human sexuality is complicated" on youtube by vlogbrothers

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It doesn't matter to anybody but you!

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Yes! You can like anyone you want.

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Like anyone you want. If someone has a problem with that then who cares. If they don't have something better to do then criticizing someone's brave life then why would you care what they think.

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Do whatever you feel like. Sometimes it's just a phase anyway. I went through a period in which I was interested in both but now I'm just like whatever.

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Stay straight! I think it's disturbing to see gay and bisexual ppl around:/

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I find it disturbing to see people who have very strict views about how everyone should be the same, like you. People are free to have any beliefs that they want.
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Yup! But they asked the question and now I'm giving my opinion. Don't correct me on it. None of your business what I think:)
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I agree with you! And I adore username and profile pic ^__^ Niall is so cute
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dont give comments like that to my boyfriend! It's rude!! ;) ;) haha jk thanks love:)
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I just looked at your profile and we have soo much in common! Crazy!
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It's fine, well actually humans are not the only gay/ bi animals, many birds and thing are. It's your business and god or laws have nothing to do with it

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yes do what makes you happy

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Ok, whoever said no you can't first you are wrong. It is not your fault if you like girls and boys. Personally I think its cool if you can be open about it!

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are you a lesbian

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yes, its perfectly fine

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Of course, it's your life, right? No one can tell you who to like and who not to like. If people don't like it then they'll just have to deal with it.

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I got friends like that and i don't think its a big deal. Just be you

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no. 1 person at a time you might get sore

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of course, you cannot control your feelings so why would something you have no choice over be wrong? Love who you want, and be happy with who you want.

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why make things complicated? stay straight

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yup its hot be a butt pirat

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Ignore all of these hardcore christians, do what you want to do with your life, It's your decision to make, not some other worldly being's.

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Of corse it is I am and I am perfectly happy and you should be to no matter what gender.

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OF course! just cause you like some one of a different gender doesn't make it not right

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be YOURSELF , like who u like, and trust yourself , what your are is called bisexual , it means u like guys and girls , personally , im straight , but u should lean in your own path ! Good Luck !!!!!!

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if you want to like both than go ahead. i personally would never like both but u can like whoever you want. i don't see what the big deal is.

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Yes, you can like boys or girls its going to be ur life and u have 2 make ur own decisions

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if you wanted to go ahead but if you don't want let them go.

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no if the puzzle doesn't fit.......

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It depends, it could be considered a fetish so who really cares?

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Yes it is okay for you to "like" boys. Being attracted to a member of the opposite gender is completely natural. However it is not okay to "like" girls in the same way as you like boys. They are different, and you should treat them differently, not worse or better just differently.

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Of course it's ok, you like who you like. If you like someone your own gender, that's okay.

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Why are you worried about what other people think? If you love or like somebody and if that person is a boy or a girl, then just be happy and be yourself. Follow the beat of your own drum! :)

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guys bring something to a relationship that girls don't and vice versa if your a girl you don't really need what girls bring because you already have it. Like how you need the loving care of a mother and the gentle protection of a father if you had only one in abundance like two mothers you wouldn't develop the way you should. That's just my opinion so.. girls should be liked in a different way thats why you have close girl friends ( BFFS and all that jazz) but guys are different and should be liked differently like what Interitus said

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Of course :) You can't help who you like, so don't try to fight it. Just go with it. If you're worried about what other people think, it doesn't even matter. If your friends are really your friends, they'll respect your choice of sexuality and be there to support you anyway.

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it's fine people will say it's against god but god would've none u were going to be like that if it was wrong he wouldn't have put u on the planet so yes it's ok

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Of course it is! Love is love, and nothing is going to change that. And don't let haters get you down. I wish you all the best!

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It's completely OK. In some areas of the country, there are some extremists who want you to go to hell if you are bi, but be who you want to be!

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Its entirely okay, be who you want to be, don't let anyone make you be something different.

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No, but it's okay :)

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Yes! Love whoever you want!

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Of course it is! Love shouldn't be defined by the gender; it should be about how much you love that person!

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Yep its ok , & it is your life not theirs (:

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To me, no. It's gross and unnatural, and obviously God didn't intend for people of the same sex to be together.

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You can, after all you love who you want to love. People are just being judgemental nowadays and accusing people of being bisexual. Love who you want to love, it's not our life, it's yours.

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Being poly amorous is just fine, you are the way you are. Just know that people will probably give you crap, but there's nothing you can really do about that, so just be happy with who you are, and who you love.

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Stay straight and god will love you more.

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Yes of course it is! Be yourself! You can't go through life trying to be someone else, there are always people who will accept you for who you are! :)

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