How can I know this relationship is a good idea? Does everyone have second thoughts sometimes? Is it normal?
So my best friend and I are sort of together. I guess we are, but we had not officially deemed one another "boyfriend/girlfriend" and we haven't told anyone else yet, though we have been together for about around four months. I asked him to give me time, and he is doing so. I myself am having second thoughts....On one hand, My best friend makes me really happy and I don't want to not have him in my life anymore, or to have a strained relationship. On the other hand, I am fiercely independent myself and not quite sure if i am even cut out to be in a romantic relationship. It seems daunting to me to be in a relationship for an extended period of time, and I am not good at expressing my own feelings. I am also not an extrovert. However, I really don't want to lose this guy in my life. Some days I think this is a great idea, and how much I really like this guy, but other days I don't want to be connected to anyone of the opposite sex. Please Help!