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Should i tell my mom that me and my girlfriend kissed? should i tell my dad that i have a girlfriend?

there is bad blood between my family (divorced) and my mom doesn't want me to tell my dad that i have a girlfriend but i will feel a little guilty if i don't tell him cuz i kinda want to tell everybody that i have a girlfriend thx ;)

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Well your mom is your mom but that doesnt mean she can control your mouth. Your dad is your dad and you have trust for him. You can't just not trust your dad because your mom tells you. I may not be giving the best advice or so. But if i were you i would scream it out loud and make giant poster(: haha. But do what you want. Shes YOUR girlfriend and you want to let everyone know how much you like her. And your dad can be the best person to give you advice and what not to do wrong since he has had some experience not your friends.

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It is good you have discovered what is going on in your family. Having realized that mom won't be comfortable if you informed your dad about it, I'd advice that you tell your dad but keep the information to yourself. Let your mom also be aware of your relationship with your girlfriend and take both their advice seriously.

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It all depends who you have a better relationship with. If it's your mom and she knows you have a girlfriend, then she should know that you guys would kiss eventually. if you don't have a perfect relationship with your dad, but you want to build on to that, then you should start by giving him some trust, he would appreciate to hear the truth from you and not from others:) Good Luck

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how old are you because it depends

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Your mom should never ask you to not tell your father things that are important to you. Its hard I know cause I'm like your mom I want to be the sole parent who knows all my sons secrets. The difference is you have a dad who takes interest in your life my sons father has no idea what my sons favorite color is yet his favorite movie. Just let your mom know how not telling him is making you feel and once you tell her she will hopefully understand the importance you feel

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