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Should I wait till highschool to date this girl?

weve been really close for about a year now and I love her to death! im worried tho, I feel like if I ask her out now and things don't work out than everything will be over and il have lost everything. so I don't know if I should wait a year or two so we can both mature a bit before we date. another problem is if I wait that long she will move on obviously and since we have a thing right now that would be hard to bare, and I don't know if she would feel the same after the long wait. any thoughts?

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Dude let me let you in on a little tip, yes there are people who marry there high school sweethearts but it's not very often, especially in the bigger towns and cities. You really find all that after high school, usually in college. Dude I talk to nobody I graduated with, all my friends came from after that drama building. My point, bro it's not worth it. Your best bet is to focus on your studies and any activities. Getting into that drama will distract you and hurt you possibly. Unless your an outstanding athlete that is getting full rides to top notch colleges, you need to be a nerd or geek. They go far in this world, the popular kids, all that crap don't get you anywhere. So my answer is keep it as friends bro. Keep the drama and stuff at a minimum. Trust me, I wish I would have said heck with the drama crap and focused in the books. Think of your future beyond high school. I'm just trying to help you.

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Show her the boyfriend type... Not the best guy friend type. And step out of your comfort zone and make sure your not put in the friend zone!

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HM..maybe I should reword this. I meant like, since I know for sure she wants to be with me and weve already dated before I feel like since everything seems great now, that another break up could ruin everything. idk if I should still date her and chance it or wait
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Ohhhhhh!!!! I read it wrong then I would just wait don't mess things up
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yes you should wait

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Don't lose her. Date her.

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