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My friend always ask so much favor from me, which I always do it for him, but sometimes I feel he's asking too much,

so annoying , I don't want to do it sometimes , he seem like a user, he even borrow my car for a few days, only call me when he need something from me, well how can i turn him down sometimes in a nice way, thanks

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Maybe you should tell him to do YOU a favor instead of him asking you. He's taking advantage of your friendship and that's not good at all. Hoped this helped! :)

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I try to ask a favor from him one time, but he didn't do it for me:(
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That's a major red flag. Think about it, you asked him for 1 little favor and he didn't do it but he can ask for whatever he desires?! Ohh noo! I think maybe your a really good person and just taking advantage of it way to much. Tell him how you feel before this situation gets worst.
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Yeah!!! For sure this time I'm going to say a big NO!!! Thanks:)
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Your very welcome. :)
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Sometimes say no this happend to me and my best friend ended up ditching and bullying me when I stopped giving her what she wanted hes not a trues friend if he does tht

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Boy do I know how that feels..
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Thanks!!!
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Hes not a very good friend if he is living of of your favors. Just tell him no, he doesent need to ask everything of you.

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Thank you:)
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He could very well be a 'user' .. and you could very well be enabling him by not setting some boundaries. You are not faultless. Tell him .. enough is enough .. that you will help 'when you can' .. but sometimes, you will inevitably have to say no.

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Yes you're right, i have to set boundaries ,,,, thanks:)
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Just tell him no. If he typically calls you, then ignore the phone calls.

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Thanks:)
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You've really answered your own question in a way. You're a true friend, but sometimes enough is enough. The next time he needs something & you're not comfortable lending it out, simply state that it's unavailable, it's already being used, it's not working properly. If he's a good friend he'll understand, & maybe try to help you out. If you ask to borrow something from him and are met with "NO". maybe he isn't the friend for you

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I do sometimes ask help or favor from him, but the help or favor not granted., so that's really make me disappoint on him. Thanks
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Love your answer! Good job! :)
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Look in the mirror, and practice saying, "I'm sorry- I'm not comfortable with that". Say it over & over until you can repeat that to your user buddy.

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Hahaha:) sound good!!!thanks
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