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Men, why would you cancel a first on a lady?

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If it's the first time and he has a valid excuse, then I wouldn't think too much of it. Now that he has cancelled don't call or text him, wait for him to come to you. If he keeps trying to contact you, then he likes you. If you don't ever hear from him, consider moving on :)

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Thats what I was going to say... Great minds think alike perhaps??
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Right. Not complete.
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That has to be it Neanderthal :D

What are you talking about Ahmad4d?
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I wouldn't o: if I set something up, I wouldn't cancel. well, unless I was feeling like absolute crap and just didn't feel well enough. or I suppose if a big family problem came up.

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Maybe something important came up in his life, that needed to be addressed. Did you ask him?

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No didnt want to come of as a psycho or needy
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1.) I didn't like her.
2.) I found somebody else.
3.) I couldn't make it.
4.) Something bad happened to the relative.
5.) I chickened out.
6.) My car got a flat tire.
7.) I ran out of money.
8.) I found peanut butter pop tarts at Walmart.

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Lol. Star 1 for 8...
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I love #8! That was great! Lol
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I would ONLY cancel a first if I was physically unable (paralyzed) to come hang out with the girl I so graciously asked out for the first time.

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ya I wouldn't cancel for no reason.

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He did want to reschedule for the next two days.
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ask him if something came up.
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If i found out information about them or heard them say something. If you lose trust or you find out about an issue, sometimes you just know that they arent for you.

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Something probably came up

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I might've wet my pants

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Lolol!
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Haha why is that?
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For fun, why else?
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Your little bagel pants. XD
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It's so much fun, heck... I'm doing it right now
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Oh, that is just lovely JayBAy. I hope you know how to do laundry. xD
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Of course, I even put my own pants on this morning
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*claps* I'm so proud of you. :o
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the only reason I would cancel was if I or a family member was dieing

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