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Is it bad if your in 8th grade and never had a boyfriend?

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No it's not bad . You should wait until your in your junior and senior year of high school due to the maturity level even then it still can be pretty low. Date when your ready don't let anyone pressure you into doing anything you don't want to do .

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nope it's not and if its ok waits you can I ask why u might think it is? :)

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I guess.. At lot of people had at least 2 boyfriends before and I never had one before..
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Oh well if they ask why u don't just say ur waiting for the right guy
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Yeah I do, but idk,../:
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sorry to interrupt ladies ...i just want to say that if you get a boyfriend just to be with somebody or to say yeah i have a boyfriend... Thats one of the biggest mistakes you can make ... somethings are worth waiting for if you get a guy that you don't really like then the guy who was meant for you comes around and if he sees that you have a boyfriend he will move on ...
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Of course not. Don't be pressured to be with someone just to fit in. If you haven't found the right person be patient. It's better to be alone than with the wrong person.

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Absolutely not! There used to be a time when people didn't date until they were in high school. :o

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I had a girlfriend in kindergarten . That lasted an entire recess then we broke up XD
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Aw. You must have been so heartbroken. Lol!
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Totally normal I started dating in 9th grade

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NO! i am going into 9th and i have only dated 1 guy!

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ha ha no! the relationships that I have witnessed in 8th grade are all immature and fake. I would wait until you know that this is what you want to do with your life.

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No it's not. You don't want to be too young and 'fall in love' would you?

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OMG no... It's fine be single as long as you want!!

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No

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no i havent dated anyone since the 6th grade an i am goin into 11th grade so no deffinitly not .... i hope this helps :)

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Not at all! You just haven't found the right guy yet, but he will come along soon enough. Don't be pressured by today's society to get a boyfriend, I bet they are overrated anyways. I am turning 15 in three months and haven't had a boyfriend either :)

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It's not bad. My parents probably won't let me date until I'm 16, but I'm okay with that, because I am an immature person and not ready for that.

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No that's actually smart! You're just waiting for the right guy to come along!:)

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nope cuz when i was in 9th grade i had 2 one just wanted sex and kiss and flirt with other girls yea i was stupid to say i wanted to date him and another guy that was nice but i only thought of him as a friend so no i would wait and if anybody says anything its not like your going to be pregnant like some girls will during the next few years while in school

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no its good that you are waiting for the right person

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Of course not!

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No it is not Bad. Maybe you are not ready or something it's for sure you will have one someday?

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No not at all. A lot of people date just to date which I think is retarded. Wait 'til you find someone good for you.(;

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No!! U r lucky to not be boy nuts and have all these boyfriends. In gr 8 i had never dated and am proud to say it! I saw a few relationships and they were horrible. I felt sorry for the girl and was so glad it wasn't me! It is nothing wrong with not having a bf by grade 8, its a great thing!!!

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No!! I'm 15 and a half and just got my first. The longer you wait the more mature you will be and happier with your decision

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NO! That means you will find the one at the right time. Also God is still writing your love story!

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Its not bad its just not normal as in eveybody else is usually dating by at least 7th.

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No it isnt at all !!

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NO! It is always the right time, you date when everything is right. You could wait for as long as you like and it would never be wrong. Never have anyone convince you that it is! You run and date at your own pace.

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No. On the contrary, I think it's good. I had boyfriends in middle school, and it wasn't special because neither of us were mature enough. You wanna save your boyfriend for highschool. :)

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I'm older than you by a bit, and honestly I don't have a girlfriend. It's ok though, don't rush into it. Only go out with someone if you really like them. like alot.

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Although all of the 'cool' kids say it is, its really not. Wait until YOU are ready, or until that someone comes along. Just enjoy being single! No rush!

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wait till you get older into like 10th grade...if then in 10th grade you havent hade one i would be worried

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