I would say that love is a good thing. Regardless of the fact that he was playing you, you need to know that may be he was not just good enough for you. I suggest that you focus on moving on but do not give up on love.
What do you mean by "playing with me"? I'm a bit of a jerk to the girl I like. But it's a playful mean, like when I call her short and she kicks me in the shins... It's really funny and her angry little pout is the cutest thing ever. Is that what you mean?
Love, has its line.You should neither go below it , nor above it. if you do not love anyone, you will alone, because if you do not like anyone , no one will like you. If you love more than limit, you will be crazy for him.Then everyone knows what happens.
Hate is like a virus , it does not do anything to whom you hate, but it will kill you both mentally and physically.
Love is complicated. You're in the moment when you're together. You are in love. And always think that you guys are forever. To me, love is the last thing I should think about. Love makes people cry and be frustrated... While other times its amazing and perfect. There's a bad side and a good side to it. Me and my boyfriend broke up about 2 weeks ago. But now were good friends. Love is just complicated.... That's all I can say.