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How do I get over a big tragedy that just happened to a ex?

Ok 2 weeks ago me and my girl friend broke up. Then just a couple days ago she was at a lake and had drowned. I can't help but feel guilty. I know it wasn't my fault but I feel that if I hadn't broke up with her she would be with me and not of gone to the lake and drowned.

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Don't feel guilty. U r not the one responsible for it & what best u can do is give comfort / solace to her family. At least this will make u feel less guilty

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Thank you.
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Emerylanee
Hi um so how old r u?
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I am so sorry but getting a pet like a dog or a cat can help you.

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Yeah my dog has really helped make me smile
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Emerylanee
Awwwww cute
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sorry to hear well having a pet can help and if not then try to forget the bad :/

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Great idea I will try that and life must go on even after the event of death
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wow, I'm so sorry to hear about that. give your condolences to her family and ask if there's anything that you can do. And don't worry, her passing has nothing to do with you.

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