. All I can tell you is how I would like to be kissed. 1. First of all, this is embarrassing for me but here goes... 2. Practice on a mirror like Joshua Bagel says. See if there not too much saliva . Girls don't like to be drooled on. 3. On your practice kiss on the mirror, make sure your mouth is not open too much . That part will come later and naturally . Let the girl take the lead on that part 4. Turn close to her and "sense" of she is willing. ASK HER if you may kiss her. 5. Gently brush her hair with your fingers (if she has long hair) away from her face if it's appropriate to do so. If her hair is in a pony tail you can't do that.. 6. Don't move suddenly . Move in slowly. Gently kiss her on her lips and make sure it's not a peck kiss like a sister, but make it last about 15 seconds. Close your eyes. Practice this on your mirror too. 7. After that first kiss, stop and look in her eyes . Then put your hand on the side of her face and draw her closer and kiss her again, softly , making it last a little longer-just how you practiced on the mirror. 8. Look at her a smile after the first kiss. 9. Now you have done a good job being a gentle man, therefore "gentleman".