ok this can be a sticky situation because its your best friend we are talking about here. say you both are chasing this guy and since you text him more you end up getting him, what if, and im just saying what if, it ends, your going to need a shoulder to cry on and if she's hurt by you getting the guy she might not be that desperately needed shoulder. that's just something to keep in mind. also if you don't see yourself marring him in your future and he doesn't seem like your dream guy type you might just not even date him. but honestly if I was in your position I would just get him to fall in love with me because im BOY CRAZY hope I helped -xoxo
Take in all the possibillities. Realty you should just try and find a different match for your friend, or make her change her mind. then get the person you like alone an kiss him. trust me, if you kiss him hell be the one folding to you next time.
If you Love someone you let them go. I told my crush that I want her to choose who she Loves not who she likes. And I told her that even though I want her and she wanted me she wanted my friend Isaac more and I said go for it and if you were wrong I'm not going anywhere soon.