Yes, because life changes. You don't really, absolutely know who you're going to marry until later on in life. Life is totally unpredictable. The person you feel like you're going to marry could move away, or you could, whatever you have planned for a job and college could changed based on if you were to be accepted into the college you wanted. You can't control what decisions that others make that will change your life. Heck, I thought I was going to stay in one town all my life, in one house, graduate with all my friends at a certain high school, marry someone from that town, get a job as an interior designer, and make a family. Guess what? Last November, I moved out of the country. There's no way you can have your life the way you imagine it when you're 13.
It's not "bad" but you're not going to marry who you think, since you're only 13, and life plans will change. A lot. Especially when there are bumps in the road. Try to go with the flow, you're young, enjoy it.
Hell no. I'm fourteen and I've been dating the same guy for three years! I love him just as much as that random 37 year old loves his wife!! There's no difference love is love and that's all that there is to say. If you love someone, really truly love someone, and they make you happy, thats all that matters, who cares how old you are?!
I do the same thing. so I highly doubt its bad. my mind does change a lot about who I think im going to marry and how many kids I want and stuff like that, but I find it fun to plan and picture my future. so no I think its not bad. -xoxo
It's not bad. It's just not realistic. I hope you are a flexible person. Be sure to set realistic short term and long term goals. Educate yourself so you have the tools to organize your life plans so you can achieve your goals, whatever they may be. Good luck!
You change throughout life so much. Humans are not meant to make plans for that long and truly stick to them. Always keep your options open and what if you change your mind later about the person you are supposedly going to marry
i honestly don't think it's bad at all .. i'm 15 and have the same thinking you do , me and my boyfriend talk about our future all the time , it's good that you set your mind too one guy instead of setting it too a bajillion of guys ..