I know that must be hard for you, but it's even harder for your mom..her husband is in jail and she has to take care of a kid all by herself. Go easy on her, be a good kid, make her life easier..be respectful. If she breaks down, be there for her..I'll pray for you guys.
It's never ok to have a crazy mother lol but if you are breathing, aren't bleeding, aren't being beaten, being fed, have clothes, have a roof over your head and a place to sleep. Then your mom isn't doing half bad, but now raising you up right I'm not sure of because I do not know your mother but you seem like a good kid. Cut your mom some slack it's probably hard on her now that your dad is in jail because everything just fell on her lap. You can talk to her and acknowledge she's acting a bit crazy I guess. Good luck!
dude dont worry my mom is worse, she went crazy to, she rather be with guys then take care of her own daughter, she has left me alone since i was 6, sometimes i dont even eat, lies, fights, even calls the cops on me if i dont say hi to her guy friends, she even told me she wanted to aborted me and that she never wanted me that she should kill me so dont worry
Common reaction for a woman who really loves her man but she will calm down eventually but in the mean time you should be supportive and understanding. Realizing that all the responsibility of the household has fallen on her shoulders including you.