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I am pretty shy, but I need help gaining confidence. help?

I am not the pretties or the skinniest girl... and I'm REALLY self conscious about my weight. it seems that everybody I know has had/has a boyfriend or girlfriend. I really want to work up the guts to ask my crush out, but I'm afraid he doesn't like me because of my weight. (I've never asked or been asked out before)

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Boys love confident girls! So make a list of the things you love about yourself and when you're feeling bad remind yourself of it! Keep your head up and don't let anyone put you down! Be who god meant you to be and you will set the world on fire!!

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What you have to do to gain self confidence is to step out of your comfort zone and stop being too self conscious. Be assertive regarding what you stand for and encourage yourself. Remember to always look your best.

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Like have a Yolo moment?
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if you dont like your weight .. try to limit certain foods and excercise it is good for your own health and then when you see the results you will gain self confidence.

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