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How can i get a girl to fight for me against her family? I've tried everything. We've been together over half a year.

I feel as if I will lose her if she doesn't fight.

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Its not about them it is about YOU and HER!

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Absolutely right!!
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Thank you TruckerLady! :0)
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Not literally to fight them,just for her to defend in front of them cause they all hate me
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@hb1, that's what I mean, its not about them. It should be about you and her. Who cares what they think if you and her truly love each other. They should mind their own business or she should just ignore them. You should talk to her about this. :0)
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I have been, there preventing me from being with her as in taking me on the trip to there house. And get mad when she talks to me on the phone. So I'm being ignored
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That sucks. I am sorry to hear that. May I put in my two cents about a flip side of this coin? Think about how she must feel torn and horrible being in the middle like this..... :0(
I feel for you guys. Sorry you two are going through this.
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ITs ok
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and thanks
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Your welcome
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Why would you want your girlfriend to fight with her family? honestly I wouldnt fight my family for my boyfriend, speacially when even if you leave they will always be there for her. Would you fight with your family that has always been there and will alwats be for someone that has been there for 6months?

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Not literally to fight them,just for her to defend in front of them cause they all hate me
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You're not providing enough info, but it seems she doesn't believe in what you want her to fight for. Would you fight against your family for her if you don't believe in what it is your fighting for? Besides compromise is a key to a harmonious relationship, fighting is just too negative and is equal to conflict. Think about it bro... and compromise ....

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Her to fight for me to just blatantly come,she says she does. But she is a nervous person and never has defied her family before. The disciplined that into and abuse here
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Oh I think I see where you're coming from, I think by asking her to fight for you is almost like what they have trained her, which is a kinda forceful way of doing things (abuse) and her being with you is already defying them, which is why they hate you, and which is why she is attracted to you coz it's what she understands. So 6 months is impressive and it means you really care so just be patient and don't pressure her and take her face value... Good luck bro...
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More than 6th and thanks your the only helpful one so far
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Because her family will always be there for her. In a few years neither if you will even remember what either of you look like.

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Family is not forever. People constantly lose eachother. i've lost my dad and a lot of my family and so has she so unless your gonna put something helpfull or true stay quite
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Excuse be? I'm not sure who you think you are talking to little boy but thus us a public forum. Grow up and don't post here if all you are looking fir is to have everyone agree with your selfish, childishness .
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Im asking for not for a suggestion not an opinion. Grow up
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And for I'm not selfish I'm trying to fix something
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No you're trying to get what you want little boy.
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Seems to me you haven't been "together" at all, dude.
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If her family is blocking you, dump her & move on.

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