If it hurts to have a bowel movement, you might want to change your diet. You need to eat healthier for that baby. Painful bowel movement indicates that you do not eat enough fiber or drink enough water. Just eat healthy portions of healthy foods.... Feed and nourish that baby properly.
You are constipated, THAT shouldn't hurt haha! Drink prune juice and eat fruit and fiber!! Your in too deep now. They can give you an epidermal for pain. They cut you open a bit so it's not so bad. Really, it's one day out of your life, unless you have more.
That is serious stuff! Keep the b.m.s going honey. I made some mini ground flax seed muffins with nuts and blueberries. They were so good and helped keep things moving. lol Just two was enough. (I substituted about 1/4 cup of ground flax seed for a 1/4 of the flour.) Keep them refrigerated, flax seed is 'tender'.