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Did I lose him?

The same guy that my last two questions had to do about, I think I lost him. So, we are both 13, and we were going to secretly go out this summer. We sent some inappropriate messages to each other, but we didn't mean any of it. (At least I think, he said he was serious, and than later he said he was kidding). Anyway VERY long story short, his mom read through all 1400 messages, and banned him from seeing me. Also because of it, he had to unfriend me. We both like each other a lot, at least I still do. I have no way of contacting him, unless one of my friends contact him. He said to one of my friends that he doesn't deserve me, and he said "I'm done talking about her okay but I'm done end of story sorry" Is he done with me? Did I lose him? Can I get him back? What should I do? Sorry a lot to read! Thanks! :)

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It's done. You're both 13 and his mom said you're done. You have to respect her wishes, she has her sons best interest in mind. You need to slow down, you're way too young to be sending inappropriate messages. Learn from your mistakes...anyone can read what you write or text. Act like a young lady.

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It was all him, I was just answering what he was saying like "ummm..." like that I wasnt saying anything like that...
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That's good to hear. :)
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if you want to talk to the guy talk to him. There's a difference in respecting yourself and respecting his mothers wishes. Sure her wishes are for you to not see him, but making your own choices are not disobeying her. Now if it were you telling her that she can't see her boy toy/boyfriend/husband or what have you then that would be disrespect.

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