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i hate my life

i hate my life i hate it so much. im filled with anxity and depression 24/7. and the girl that i love who ive been trying to go out with said basicly im not good enough for her. and she makes fun of me and i hate it so much but i love her so much. im so confused and freaked out please help what should i do

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kick her to the curb

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Naw, I know by your many good answers that you don't mean it.
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its not that easy my friend....its not that easy
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yeah, I know, but ol' man time will heal the heartache. been there, done that.
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thank you. you seen quite eise on the subject
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hang in there, life is good unless of course you have a medical condition like I have
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Your not limited to the girls in your area when you grow up you will go to places and find real love she isn't your life live it with things you like

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I hate my life to if you ever need someone to talk to im here

what most people tell me is to stay strong but that mostly never works maybe find something your happy with music is what I love and it helps me also sleeping to get away from reality

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thanks do you have a email or something?
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I have a deviantart creepypasta001


you can message me there if you want
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Well pull yourself together. I've been through harsh times too and I thanked God everyday I was still alive to see a new day. Put it all behind you don't talk to her you may think you like her but inside you truly don't I've had that feeling before your not alone. Anything else bothering you?

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you need to calm down, take a second and breath. talk to someone, vent and let everything out

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U have to move on if the feelings aren't the same for u on her part! As much as it sucks, There is another girl in this world that will love u for u!!! Don't get so down, Life it too short! Go live your life and be happy!

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Same here. I suffer of anxiety and depression. The best thing to do is give her up. (Which I know is not easy but you can do it!) who cares what she said I think that she doesn't deserve some one like you if she is going to treat you like that. (Even though I don't know you).

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Tips for each thing you have said:

I hate my life: Find something you like about it
anxiety/depression: try exercising proven to make you happy
Girl problem: people have opinions, and hers was mean, be sure not to do it to anyone else someday.
Being made fun of: If you don't like being made fun of avoid her.
Loving someone who doesn't love you back: Why like someone who is mean? I think if she treats you this way she's not worth it.

No reason to be depressed
I mean I could vent all the bad things about myself


2. people make fun of How I talk
3. ppl call me annoying
4. Ppl think Im weird
5. ppl make fun of music I listen too
6. Girls and guys are mean to me
7. ppl say words I don't like just because they know I don't like it
that didn't make me feel better, I'm just going to do what I want regardless of what others think, I like going against the crowd.
but who cares, Im not going to just sit for a few hours and think about whats wrong with my life but go and make what good in my life better. I know how to ride a bike. If I ride more than Im better at something. Stop being depressed and cheer up, its just 1 girl .
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d-diB65scQU

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Take a few breaths... You lived this long. She has no right to take it. Tomorrow gather some strength, Make a concerted effort to move on. Winners never quit, and quitters don't win.

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be patient

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Maybe you should seek help !! To keep your life in check !!!
It's the only life we all get!!!

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I always have said to myself: "No man is worth doing anything irrational over." Please don't let one girl mess up your chances of being happy.

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forget about her because thats a bully and i suggest you go for how a girl acts when she is around just dont go for the looks

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im not she used to be nice but now not so much...
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life goes on she changed now you change once you forget about her look for a true nice girl not a fake one
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Pray

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I find It interesting that the majority of the comments were focused on the girl portion of the problem... this is either 1 because of the meaness that the girl is said to have used and this stood out from the rest, or because people like dissing other people whether they were mean or not. Anyway the solution is of course to move on. I met a girl in 6th grade (focusing on the girl portion now), and instantly, I mean the moment I laid eyes on her my heart skipped a beat. time went on and she found out, she didn't say a word kinda talked to.me (I will swear today that she used me) some more. Years go on I am now a sophomore in High School and am dating a girl (not her) and have been for 2 years and counting. I still feel something when I see her but I love my girlfriend. point is you move on and life gets better. Every storm runs out of rain.

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thanks and i wish the best for you and your gurkfruend
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Ask God to intervene in your life. He has a better plan for you then you can imagine. He has given me all I needed. Seek God with all your heart,mind,soul and strength. If that isn't what you want to hear. There are plenty of fish in the sea:*)

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you might want to get yourself on some anti depressants u shouldn't hate your life and be sleeping it away go on with your life do you for a while take your medication your probably not producing enough serotonin which will put you in a state of depression

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I hope you get lucky .

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That's only one girl's opinion. She doesn't sound like much to me. Don't give her that much power over you feelings.

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Aww, honey, it isn't the end of the world. There are other girls out there. Face the facts: she's a douche. People are like that. You deserve better. Keep looking for Mrs. Right. In fact, just listen to Mindless Behavior's song, Mrs. Right. You will learn the way. XD hope that helped.

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Can you take your heart out and still live! You and I don't think so. But you can get rid of someone that doesn't deserve the likes of your kindness and goodness, so try to find some other friends in which you will find a lot of others that will thrive at your being you! Stay strong-it's so hard at first. You can do it! We know you can!!!

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I have the same problem! Especially the loving a girl that doesnt like me thing, my advice: dont think about her, watch some funny movies and such. Hope you feel better!

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Pray,Get enough Sleep,Stay organize so your not stressed,Relax,Take time out for yourself,be around people that make you laugh or smile or happy,you could seek counseling but if that doesn't help,join a activity or sport or something that interest you,Being active and getting outside the house will help,going for walks or a group trip with friends,focusing on positive things in your life the negatives,making changes to the stuff you dislike about your life and turning them into positives,watch funny movies,spend more time with friends then focusing on a girls who you should totally move on from cause she shouldn't be laughing or making you feel even down

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So, tell me again, I don't think I caught it the first time, why do you hate your life?

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I agree with the person that says talk to god. Jesus is a wonderful friend. Second take this word of advice from one with this same experience. Dump the girl. She will never care for you no matter what. people who mock others are wicked at heart. Third, to really get out of depression go and serve others. Soon your own problems seem so small and remote they no longer matter. You'll feel better about your self and you will soon discover Jesus will provide you with someone who will truly appreciate you for the best part of who you truly are. Trust me on this, you have much worth inside of you. Just explore this please.

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There will always be people who don't like you.
There will be people who don't want to be with you.
There will always be people who don't understand you.

But remember, there are people who love you.
Living with anxiety and depression, I know it's hard to be convinced.

She is one person out of so many people in this World.

I know it's hard and tough, but I want you to try.
Try living each day one step at a time.

Get some exercise maybe.

You're not alone. I can't do much, but I wish you the best of luck.

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You can't dwindle on the fact that the girl doesn't love you back. I know you probably get tired of hearing this, but the world is a big place and you're special someone is out there, you just haven't noticed her yet. You shouldn't linger on this girl any longer, she'll only cause you more pain and true love requires two people.
Think of love as a flower. It needs both rain and sunshine to survive. To much sun and the flower will wither and die; to much rain and the flower will drown. Love also requires both rain and sunshine to grow, and you certainly can't do it alone. Right now, it may seem like there is a lot of rain in your life, but someday, you will find your sunshine and your love will blossom like flower. :)

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Everything in this world has beauty, you just have to open your eyes to see it
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Thank you, its amazing how much beauty can be found in this world, if you would just take the time to open your eyes and see it :)
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Pray Pray Pray everyday

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You need to calm down. And Never get tired of doing your best, it will change your life.

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Calm down, take care of yourself first, and definitely switch to guys. If the girls don't want you, you've got no choice but to go for the guys. Good luck tiger!

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