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This is my story, some of you might think it's a little dramatic, but I really can't control how I feel.. n sorry for my bad English .

Well my exboyfriend and I broke up like 3 months ago, we were together for 18 months. he has a new girlfriend, I'm still madly in love with him, tho in the last couple weeks we weren't treating each other as good as we used to.. in th past year, I've hurt him a looot.. and I really regret every single bad thing I did to him.. It really breaks my heart to know that he moved on. i tried to, but I couldn't get over him. like I tried going out with another guy, but all I could think of was him.. i once tried talking to him on whatsapp, he had a Display picture of him and his gf, so when we talked, he removed her photo and put one of his own. what should I do?? i'm really broken hearted, but I never show it to anyone around me because they'll think I'm weak. they'll never understand what it really feels like.. plus I'm getting SO moody..

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Pray & believe in GOD! Pray asking for strength and know everything will work itself out! You know, I've been where your at so I understand your pain but you have to accept the fact he's moved on and instead of you worrying about him you have to worry about yourself. Write down what you want in a man then write down on a separate sheet of paper why you are so madly in love with him, I'm sure he will not fill all the qualities for what you actually want. Worst case - find a good love spell caster but not to break them up but for you to find true love! I wouldn't suggest a spell, no spell is stronger than GOD! Good luck!!!

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Let your feelings out take this as a learning experience you don't know you have something good until its gone who knows he might not last with this girl and you guys can talk it over

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Time will heal you!

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The best thing for you to do right now, is not date. Since you are not over your ex, a new bf won't help you with that. Wait and give yourself some time to get over him and move on. There is no magic way to do this and everybody does it in a different way. Since it appears that he isn't coming back, you have no choice but to accept it and move on. Take as much time as you need, and talk with trusted friends about it. That way you can get it out of your system, and you will see yourself getting over him. But, if you hold it in and not talk about it, it will take a lot longer, and maybe, you never will get over him.

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Dan

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Well dnt lose contact with him if you really do love him you guys will end up getting back together show him that you miss him but dnt go too far remember he still has a gf and it's ok to b moody it's natural show him your feelings dnt hide them

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you know what, you should have a trip. You should go somewhere you don't know. Then you'll meet new people, view new environment, then you'll have a new mood. Believe me, it helps.

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You'll be ok, Its just going to take time, he's moved on and you should too, good luck.

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the next person you meet you should treat him right cause you never know you have a good thing until you lose it

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Best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.

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Two things, you are clearly too young for all this because if you were more mature you'd know that while it isn't necessarily easy, you can in deed control how you feel. Also, just move on, he has. You are wasting days of your life on something you'll never face and is likely not nearly what you've made it out to be in your own mind. This is your real life! You're never going to get this time back. Grow up, move on.

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you said you went with another guy ..i dont think his coming back to you ..he got another girl to forget you its best just to move on it looks like he did...i would if my girlfriend went with another guy while we we a couple the i would not speak to her again = /

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Lol don't be a hater!

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Me?:O
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Just kidding! What you need to do is go get your's life is to short! For the dumb shhhhhhit! Right?
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Right.
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Best luck! Babe!
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Have you thought that maybe , you want him back now because he has a new girlfriend . If he didn't would you still feel this way !

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Be careful about a rebound boyfriend! you are at your most vulnerable point and any relationship that may start now may not be healthy in the long run. Take time for yourself and be happy doing the things that you enjoy

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