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If you were in this situation what would you do?

You moved away with your husband who you love and where you live there is no family then he gives you rules like how late you can go out or what chores you must do before you can leave the house and he calls you and makes you hide the phone so he can listen to who you are with and he starts. to get worse and worse untill you are not aloud to leave the house unintended and makes you wear revealing clothes around the house and you call him master and then you start to get punished for not making a dish spotless or not saying master at the end of the sentence

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Hmm. I would leave. No doubt about it. Grab a single bag, with the things you can't leave behind, and run. Call your family, tell them you need help. Hop on a grey hound and head back home.
Before it's too late.

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keep me updated I will try to help as much as possible

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If you are uncomfortable in your relationship, or you feel that your life might be in danger, then you get up in the middle of the night while he's sleeping and leave. Contact a close friend or relative to come get you, or call 911.

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Well this guy sounds like no offense he sounds like a over controlling sexist idiot. You need to get out of that "relationship." By no means is he a man .

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It's pretty obvious that's no way to live your life. He sounds very insecure and pathetic, but that doesn't mean he isn't dangerous, too.

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This is typical of abusers and wife-killers. If this is you, you are in danger. Eventually someone will be behind bars and don't let it be you -- prison sentences for wife killers are much less than those for husband killers. A foul and disgusting fact of the world we live in. Go. Leave. Stay connected to your Ask people. We have a lot of resources to help you.

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If you stay things will not end well. If you have no kids you need to do what the first comment says. Pack one bag and hop in a bus. Good luck!

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That wouldn't last 1 second with me. I would have said "you have seriously lost your dang mind." You are not a slave or a dog, he has no right to control you like one. He has the issues, not you. Get your purse with all your important papers and id's, clothes can be replaced, leave the situation while he is at work. There is only a matter of time before he becomes violent, if he hasn't already. If he controls you that much, he may monitor your internet usage. Best to call a family member, tell them where you will be hiding out so they can get you the heck out of there. Don't think he will change and don't believe it if he tells you he will. Its all a cheap low down lie to keep you there. This horrible situation you are in will either get you beat on or put in a body bag. Best to leave asap, you will be better off. Good luck.

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I'm going to say this very simply.
Your life is in danger!
As soon as he leaves for work, you pack a bag of the bare necessities. You can walk/drive to the nearest store, or safe place AWAY from the house, and call family, friends, or the police. The police could pick you up, or ask you to drive to their station, and take you to a woman's shelter. Once there and safe, they will help you get home.
Please sweetheart, no matter what he says, he will NOT change, he will NOT change. I said that twice, because I wanted you to read it twice. You need to get out before it's too late. Please.

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its time to leave! Run!

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get the hell outta there when he leaves.

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Leave him run when ever he leaves the house next

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Stop calling yourself Robs Girl,and call your Mom.

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RUN!l!

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I'm sorry you are going through this . This man has a lot of problems and this is all wrong . Pack your bags and your children's ( if you have kids) and go home to your family . After you do this file for a divorce . You are better then how this man is treating you .

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As you can see my all of the other answers on here.... The general consensus is that you are with the wrong person. At what point in your life did you every think that THIS kind of life was ok?? You are your own person. You do not need to be controlled by anyone else for any reason. You are allowed to make your own decisions in this world. It doesnt even matter if they are right or wrong.... that is how you learn from them anyway.
I agree with everyone here in saying you need to get yourself away (far away) from this individual. NOTHING good will come from this manipulating person. His problems will only create more problems for you.

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I would get out of the relationship. You may love him, but he doesn't love you if he's treating you this way. Throw some things in a bag, and go home to your family, and get the police involved to keep him away from you. If you stay, you'll continue to be miserable, and soon he'll probably start being physically violent towards you.

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Wow! Do you like it! Because it's would make me upset! It's like a dominant play? Right by the sound of it he is about in his 40s? You may need to talk to him tell how you fill or get out! It sound's like torture! To me no women should have to go thru this humiliation ! At all you need to be treated like a princess! Every day sorry! You go threw this bd!

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