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If your parents hated your partner you currently loved would you ditch him or carry on with him despite the protests?

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This greatly depends on how old you are.
If you're an adult, your parents don't have any say in who you are with. I would look into the reasons they don't like him, at least hear them out. Then make my own judgements based on what they've said and how I feel.
If you're a child, you really don't have much choice. Your parents have all the say. If they are still letting you see him, but only protesting, I would probably again ask why they don't like him, and see if he can prove to them, he's not the way they think he is.

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If someones 15... then??
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If you're a child, you really don't have much choice. Your parents have all the say. If they are still letting you see him, but only protesting, I would probably again ask why they don't like him, and see if he can prove to them, he's not the way they think he is.

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Look.... when they got to know about him.... my parents told me to stay away from him... i agreed at first

But then... after a few months i again got back with him :P
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Sometimes parents are pretty smart. They've been there done that or seen it happen to a friend... How old is he, if you don't mind my asking?
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ummmm as they are mom dad... so they are around 40!!
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I'm around there too...I meant your boyfriend :)
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ohhh... i am sorry!!!

Ummm he's 15..!!!
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...well then, the 1 thing I can say for certain is it's not your age difference that bothers them!!
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as i am still 15, they are little over possessive for me...... and most probably wouldn't allow for me to have a bf right now....
but for me,,,, i love him!!
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Depends on how old you are, and what sort of track record you (concerning the type of people you hang out with). If you are still fairly young, then you may want to ask them why they don't like him, could be that they are seeing something that you've missed. Also if you have a habit of choosing friends that are not good for you, they may just being trying to help.

If he's really a great guy, and your parents are just being unreasonable without cause, then it's your choice to ignore them, but if you are underage, and still living at home you still need to respect their feelings on the subject.

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It's good to take your parents feelings and thoughts into consideration maybe they are seeing something your not . Then again they could just be over controlling . The main thing here is you need to do what makes you happy it's your life so live it .

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Thanks.... :)
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Your very welcome ^_^
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^_^ xD
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It looks like Cjkenkel, Sephira, and I are in agreement. All I can add is a comment on your wording. You say this is the guy you "currently" love. Maybe subconsciously you've already made a decision.

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True....
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I'd carry on

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Ohhkay....!!! cool.....
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I am 19 and my mom absolutely dislikes my girlfriend. She told me she sees darkness when she looks at my girlfriend. I have been with my girlfriend for a year and 5 months and I don't plan on leaving her just because my mom doesn't like her. Your mom/dad isn't marrying your partner, you are. Don't let what other people think influence what you do. Oh and also love is hard to know. You may think you are in love, but may not be. Only you can decide that for yourself.

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But what i am just a kid... like about a 16 year old!!! ;)
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Then you need to decide what you want.
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ya... but thanks for your answer!!! ^_^
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Depends on why they hate him

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Carry on

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