Can Doctors tell if you masturbate?
I'm going on birth control to regulate my periods, but in order to do that, i 've learned that i have to go through a "well women's exam" i'm 17 and i've never done this before, but to my understanding, this involves a breast exam (no big deal) and a pelvic exam (very very big deal). I'm embarrassed to say that i have participated in masturbation, and i think my hymen is long gone, though i am still a virgin. However i would like to know if the doctor will be able to do the pelvic exam and tell that i have masturbated. I'm incredibly nervous about this, because my mother will be going with me, and she absolutely CANNOT find out. So? Can they tell?