6 months ago
Last edited at 10:13AM on 6/23/2013
Hi, Bejewlie. Honey, I'd don't think this guy deserves to be called your "boyfriend." Have you ever thought about the reasons you're with him? Could it be that your friends have boyfriends and so you think you should have one, so you're just settling with this guy who is undeserving of your love & attention? Or do you just want a boyfriend for the sake of having one? I'm not trying to be mean, sweetheart. I'm just wondering why you would want someone who's treating you like this. You sure don't deserve it & I'm sure you give him a lot of attention, or try to when he'll have anything to do with you. There's somebody out there that will treat you with respect and give you all the attention and love you need and deserve and this guy ain't the one. Just walk away and wait for the real one to come along, honey. And, BTW, if he cares and loves you enough, he's going to know how to show you affection. He'll not have to wait for you to tell him to hold your hand or he won't be able to keep from hugging you. There are just some things you don't need permission to do if you really care for someone. You'll be smiling at them, being playful with them, want to hold them.
Okay. He might be like me, maybe not but here goes nothing. He might not know what to do and when. He may respect you and love you enough to not get close to you until you say he can. When im with my girlfriend i never get close, because i respect her.
How does someone who shows u no attention or affection even GET to be your bf?? But some people are less attentive & affectionate than others so just talk 2 him about this problem. If he can't or is unwilling to change than move on & find u someone who will return all the love & affection u give them