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How can you get something out of your boyfriend, when you are inspecting that they are lying and hiding something, but using text?

I have this boyfriend where every once and a while we spend time together in person. But recently I went on this one site where I had met him, and he had blocked me, when I had confronted him about it, thru text, he had told me he honestly didn't know. I think he is hiding something.

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If he doesn't really know why you're blocked, he shouldn't have any problem unblocking you. Sounds shady to me.

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but the funny thing is, he hasnt unblocked me. and it happened yesterday, and ive asked him too
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Then you should block him from your life, you're being played.
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ya, me and him broke up once but for a different reason and then got back together a few days ago and its not working out and im tired of feeling guilty for something he has put on himself and then blames me.
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Go with your gut instinct. If he is your boyfriend, he shouldn't block you.

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ya, that's what everyone is saying
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Yeah maybe he's still using the site and doesn't want you to know?!
And you never confront someone thru text, you can't SEE their expression!!

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well i mean, we really never see each other, in person, cuz he doesnt have his own car. i still use the site, but im loyal and not cheat, we broke up once before, but for a different reason, and we worked things out. but i caught him on the site posting stuff like ladies message me for my number, when he knows he has me as a gf. he keeps telling me his account is getting hacked. but its easy to change the password.
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You can't have a boyfriend where most of your time together is online. That's not how a relationship is built. There has to be a lot of time together and I don't mean online.

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I know. We were tryin our best to spend time with each other.
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Sometimes the more mature one has to fact the fact that without time together the relationship is doomed to failure and make the very grown up decision to move on.
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Break up

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