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What do I do if my boyfriend is being a jerk and our relationship is crumbling?

He's done some stuff that has made me feel pretty bad about myself, and I find myself looking for ways to avoid him. I think I still love him, and I don't want to break up if there's other ways of fixing it.

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You need to talk to your boyfriend about how you feel. If the relationship is making you hurt, you need to think twice about it. You are more important than the relationship and if someone makes you feel bad about yourself, that is a sign that you are in a bad relationship. You need to be with someone who considers you feeling and makes you happy.

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If anyone makes you feel bad, Dont stay. there are billions of people in the world and lots of boys who would never treat you like that. Dont waste your time. :)

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It takes two to make a relationship work. You can't do it all yourself. Sometimes, or lots of times, we love someone and they aren't good for us. It's really your life and decision.

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well, have him post a question in here. That made me change a little the way I was treating my girlfriend. The most important to remember is that when he is a jerk, he is feeling bad about himself and he is portraying that into you. The best thing to do, if you love him and he loves you is to talk things through. If he doesn't want to listen, or he doesn't listen to what you are telling him then you should consider leaving him for someone that would make you feel better. I came to a realization recently that no one deserves to feel bad, specially from people that are supposed to support and love us. Communication is Key!

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A boyfriend should be someone that makes you feel beautiful and good about yourself. The way he's treating you is not okay. Have a talk with him about it and if he still doesn't change then you should find someone better. And even if you love him still, think about you and how much happier you could be with someone else.

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Right now your just browsing through time.
Choose the things that will mean the most
and last the longest.
Protect your thoughts and your heart.

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I just do not understand your thinking that you "love" someone who treats you so bad you want to avoid him. Move on!

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Save yourself a lot of hard time and get rid of him and find someone that treats you as a yong lady should be treated, dont settle girli, stand for something or you stand for nothing

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Leave. He makes you feel bad and you try to avoid him, not a healthy relationship.

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