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Help me i love him what to do

he said he loves me but says doesn't wanna carry it further as he feels it wont work.. initially he said he loves but doesn't want it cos he is scared later wen we both went on an internship for 4 days and he confessed he fell for me and said he loves me. after some 5 days he said he doesn't want this sort of a relationship with me as i was his friend and now a lover would not be nice from others point of view.. he says it wont work and he doesn't want it like that. but i really am in love with him and cant be without him. please help me. he is scared of everything and so wants to end our relationship and continue as friends. please help me i want him. he is not willing to talk about this issue. what can i do? i badly need him please help me... :(

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I have heard the very same lines before. Its just an easy way of letting you down. He thinks by saying that he wont hurt you. Or he has someone else and hes a little more into them than you. Im not trying to sound mean or blunt and I am sorry if I do. You say that you love him and you cant be without him but one thing in life is if you love something let it go and if it comes back then you know! Although it doesnt always work out the 2nd time.. You need to walk away from him and be strong because if someone truely felt that way about you then they would be saying the same that you are. I wish you the best of luck :).

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I know you don't want to hear this, but if he doesn't want a relationship, there is nothing you can do about it. Especially if he won't talk about it. You can either relent and be "friend-zoned" or break away completely and move on.

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If you really love him, you need to talk to him and let him understand how much you value the relationship. However, you will also need to be patient and give him sometime but you should also not make him play with your feelings.

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