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Why does she hate me now? After she said she likes me?

This girl the other day asked me if I liked her. I tried to avoid the question because she basically was like a best friend to me. I also knew she liked me from some friends who she told. But I knew if I said no she would hate me. So I said yes. I guess I kind of liked her but not enough to date her... But now she seems different. Before I would mess around with her and she would laugh. Now she just flips at me. Did I do something wrong? Also now I feel like she is ignoring me.

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She is probably embarassed. She probably regretted asking that, the second after she said it. /: and by then she couldn't take it back. so she's trying to blow you off and avoid you. :/ it's not your fault..

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I'm sure it will blow over soon ;D
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Oh it did :)
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Yay! Hehe ;D
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She might think of you now more as a boyfriend than a best friend. She is probably just confused.

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Confused how?
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So you wanted to say no and you lied. You could have just friend zoned her. She would have been a little hurt but she would still be her friend.

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Well... I wouldn't say i don't like her. Im kind of 50/50 on it. Because i mean I like her but I think she's moving too fast.
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Did you tell her that? Just get her a message saying you want to take things slow.
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Yeah but I think she needs her space at the moment... Lol
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Dude she's a teenage girl, if your expecting her to be mature then your gonna be waiting a while. She's maybe trying to play hard to get, don't fall for it. Just go on with your life like it didn't even happen and if she still wants to be best friends or your girlfriend she'll come crawling back to you, and if she don't her loss. But just don't worry, it's pointless.

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I know. Haha! It's just confusing. But thanks
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Yep, been where your at bro. Just worry about more important things that are about you.
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Hormones are all over the place at this age!

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Too much actually
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shes probably annnoyed at you

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I know she is. But why? She has liked me since elementary. And im 16
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