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I need to do something with my life. I'm the type of person who dreams big dreams, and wishes she had a small life. I'm 15, and feel as if..

I've done nothing with my life. my parents think that I'm depressed, and my dad tries to have pep talks with me. honestly I think it's stupid, and he has 6other people to worry about. so here is my question, If I prepared myself to leave home by next summer, would it be smart? ok, no. that's not my question because its not, but is it doable? I will be 16, and I'm not looking I live large, and be famous. I need to do something with my life. I don't want to waist this opportunity. I wouldn't do stupid things either... For some reason I think that it's all gonna be ok, as long as I leave. I'm sorry that I'm babbling, ill stop now, and you can tell me what you think.

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Well, that is extremely selfish of you to just leave your house and make your parents suffer from worrying and missing missing you so much. They obviously love you a lot if they go out of their way to deal with you bad attitude to try to make you feel better when there is something much better to do than comfort you. Unless you want to be living off of crumbs found in wrappers a the bottom of the dumpster, and having no place to shelter you from rain, freezing temperatures and snow, then yes go out and live your dreams that will soon be crushed by reality. You have many more years to achieve things and the only way to do that is with money, and to acquire currency you have to soak up all of that juicy information that's free to you offered at a place called school. Don't do it, you'll be better off.

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you shouldn't leave until you get out of schooland get a decent job. it's hard living on your own, especially if you are young.

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No. i honestly think you are to young

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I feel it would not be smart. You can go to school, have a free meal, and have shelter whilst living with your parents. It's just more beneficial. However, there's nothing stopping you (or so I know) from maybe getting a job that can offer a place for productivity. Or maybe take up hobbies, audition for something, get out more often. I know it can be hard for you with school but at least that is doable. But, if you decide to move out-well- that's up to you. My mom moved out at 15 and has been going down hill ever since. you say you wouldn't get into trouble or whatever but come on, you're 15! Granted you can still be independent and smart and confident and responsible but you're also young. You're bound to want to get out and live a little. So, that's my two cents.

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Going or not depends on exactly what you want to do with your life. If you leave now,your not going to get done with high school and probably not go to college. If you want a steady, well-paying job, then stay. If you want to be an actress or something like that, I can see why you would want to leave. But be patient. You're only 15! You have a long life ahead of you and you shouldn't leave now or you're never going to get through school. Nobody really knows exactly what they want to do with their lives until they are at least in college. So relax. Good things come to those who wait.

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What you should be doing with your life is finishing high school. Sounds like you are a deep thinker and very analytical. You know from being smart that leaving is not the answer. You wouldn't believe that in just 2 short years, you'll have such a better understanding of your life and what you want to do with it. "What you do today will affect the rest of your life".

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