i also wear a lot of black. but it is time to have a change and i decided to change myself totally. all my friends and families often said i am a man of woman. i feel quite sad for that. i want to change the image in their mind. therefore i searched a lot of dresses today. how do you think about this one http://dress.cm/yGvRGM is it lady and elegant? you can also try some bright color cloth and dresses and you can search on the internet first.