Why do people insist on looking outside themselves for a reason for their life?
It's nice to think there's a reason to live.A pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.
Because people have desires.
Because the eyes view that outside yet the mind sees what's inside. The heart discerns both and the soul decides whether to believe each one. If any aren't doing there job right then we run into a problem.
it is both healthy and unhealthy to do sofinding purpose is valuable and healthy.. only after one is at peace within firstto find/need to look to be "ful-filled" from an outside circumstance/person.. is a path to unhealthrather than say "you complete me" (love that line in jerry mcguire)be at a place to say.. "i am complete and can now love you more/deep/sincere"