Not everyone here is mean. The people who are mean, just know no one can actually beat them physically, so they say whatever they want. But it's your responsibility to ignore them, That's what I do, and it seems to work just fine.
Sometimes they are like that because of something that happened in their past & things they had to go through. It's their way of protecting themselves from getting hurt by others. Not a good way but usually that's why people are mean
We are humans and we were not meant to rely on just ourselves. God put us all here to live amongst 1 another so we do have to rely on 1 another and believe me some day matter what race or sex we are we will all have to stand together and we will gladly do it. So don't let what force that drives them to act such a way affect you in any way that's just a force their acts are trying to make you carry .