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What would you do when you are asking/talking to your friend but they don't give you response?

Sometimes, when I try to tell my friend some story, her face seems like showing that she is not interested at all. When I asked someone, she answered me indifferent. I feel offended. I feel like, I'm a boring person ever. I don't want to have bad expectation of them, because they are just my classmates, not really tight friend. I am not normal with this. I am a type of sensitive girl which when it comes to funny jokes, I feel offended even though it was just a little funny joke, and I don't get serious when it comes to project that need full attention.

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All friendships are different Nuru but there are some expectations we should all expect from our friends which I believe are reasonable such as:
~Expecting respect in their treatment towards you.
~To not hurt your feelings intentionally.
~For them to try and lift your spirits when you are feeling blue.
~To be there for you when you want to vent your feelings.
~And last but not least to appreciate and value YOU just as you would them.
Without these..I don't think you can truly consider someone a good friend Nuru.

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And you're an expert ! Your note last night really moved me. Got one from Susan too.
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Your welcome.I left you a few today..knock yourself out.
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Good night sweet lady. I'm sure you are long gone. I hope you have the best of times with your friend on that exotic isle. Check-in if you can. If not, c ya next week! Later Gator!
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Hey girl, you around?
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australis
Yes,I am..
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There you are. It didn't show you had replied until just now. I was at work when I shot MJW that quick comment. I saw your question (btw, no on this end) and he said he would slip you a note. Is that a feature you guys have that I don't, or was that code.
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You will find out soon.How are you today?
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I will find out soon?! Hmmm... I am well. I got off work a little early so I thought I'd jump on here for a bit. And I wanted to be able to be sure I again wished you a safe and fun get-away! (in case you turned in early) Got your bags packed?
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No..nothing Hondo.I'm still running around like a Nut.And I'm leaving early.I just had to calm down a bit so I got on here.
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You couldn't find your way back here without my directions! Yeah, you need to calm down for a few! Lmbo!!
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australis
Tell me about it Lol.I'm losing my mind.Did you get a computer?And where is everyone?
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Nope still on my phone. Haven't heard from MJW. Or Gail :( The only other browsing I have done is that 'lip' answer. Leaving early probably means you won't be on here real late tonight, right?
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No..I will because I want to calm down.So I will get off for now and come and find you guys later.You will be on in about 2 hours?
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Yeah, most likely. Bye!
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Well, I strolled through and everyone was gone, so I'll stroll elsewhere.
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There's an age diff question Go see what you think Sandra. Your a teacher 15 she is, 21 he is,
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Ignore them or tap on her shoulder or talk louder so that she/he can hear or talk to others. Your class has quite a number of friends, not only her/him right?

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They do not deserve to be your friends. Try to make other friends. But do not lose your identity because you are unique in your own way and you will always be. If I were in your place, I would not have bothered them anymore and would not have let them bother me. But pay attention to your project work. There are some people who pay attention to those who excel in the fields they are interested in. Never make such selfish people as friends. In such cases your dignity ranks first. But if they use you to move ahead, then do not hesitate to use them to achieve your goals( but only use decent ways 'cuz you're not like them).Trust me because i have been through that phase.

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He/She isn't a good listener, Tell'em Hey! I'm talking!
if He/She still don't give you any response, then you must understand they're not good friends.
but I won't tell you to leave them (only if they're starting to make you feel stressed),
Other than that, just have fun with them & that's all,
and try to make new friend who are "good listeners" and always there for you (true friends).

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