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There's a person who has always been stabbed on the back by the people whom she had always trusted.Now she is depressed.what should she do?

she tries her best to change her ways but she can't. how can she find real friends who keep their friendship and never hurt her?

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There will always be people in life who hurt you. But, that does not mean you stop trying. Because you may miss out on meeting good people.

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thank you for such a positive and inspiring answer
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You're welcome.
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Friends that never hurt you? Good luck with that.

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from your answer i think you believe that such friends do not exist. is that it?
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what i am trying to say is that either you have never met with friends like that or you have experienced that part.sorry didn't mean to be rude.still then thanks for a practical answer. thank you for wishing me luck.
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What I meant to say is that with every relationship there is an inherent risk of being hurt.
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Cut off all communications with the people that are being horrible. Try to join a new club etc to make some more friends and find friends that you can tell all of your problems to. Hope this helps and gives her more confidence ;)

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thank you
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Most of us have been hurt by so called friends sometime in in the life. Once this happens you become more selective in the friends you choose. Stay away from people who thrive on drama and gossip because one day you will be the target.

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thank you but could you suggest me a way to make good friends. i mean how do i even know that they won't cheat me and moreover don't hurt me. to tell you the truth i have a scarier hidden personality which i hide from outsiders? i can scare them not to dare to hurt me but you see that won't exactly solve my problem
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please forget about the personality part.thank you.
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Well .. the thing about chosing your friends is to choose 'wisely'. There are varying levels of friendship..From casual to true friendship.

With each level comes a different set of ground rules, responsibilities .. and expectations.

If you choose to categorize EVERYONE you even remotely 'think' you can trust into a category where they don't belong .. no question about it .. "someone's gonna get a hurt".

The truth is .. Even best of friends can disappoint you .. THAT one sucks .. big time. Sad, but sometimes, it happens .. No one is perfect and there's nobody stupider than people.

Choose wisely!

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yes even best friends disappoint us but not always. i don't have a best friend.atleast i think that the thing is none of them are trustworthy. they only want to play around. i am very shy. so i don't usually talk much and i usually believe in them even though they are pretending. i can't bring harm to them cuz i'm not that type of person. so could you please give me some tips to choose good friends? thank you
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Call the police.

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