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How can i force my parents to let me meet up with a girl i'm seeing?

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The first question that popped into my head is, how old are you, and how old is she? If you guys are too young to drive, I'm not sure how you're going to force anything. Sneaking behind your parents back can crush any trust that they have in you. And that can take years to rebuild. I suggest you sit down, and tell your parents that you really like this girl, and would like their permission to see her on the up and up. How you handle this now can form of the rest of your teenage years. Do the right thing. And in your heart, you know what the right thing is.

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im only 16 and so is she :3 but ive known her for 6 months and it sucks because we hardly get to see eachother unless we skype :(
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were both only 16... but ive known her for 6 months and it sucks how we can hardly meet... and i dont wanna risk doing it behind my parents back... we can only skype :(
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Sweetheart, if your parents are that against it, I guess skyping is the best way to go right now. Once you find the courage, you will talk with your parents. The worse they can tell you, is no.
And trust me, I'm a parent. Sometimes "no" is the hardest word we can tell our children. But we always have a reason for it.
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but shes so nice and cares about others and has so much respect to everyone, she has a caring heart... and i like her for her personality and i did a lot for her and i know i deserve someone nice like her so its not even fair for them to not let because in the future i knoe it will be hard for me to find someone witha great heart these days :( please help me
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Dido to what rittasangel177 told you
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You probably shouldn't even be thinking about this. If they won't allow you to see her, it is because they have a good reason. Far from this, you can sit them down and talk about it calmly; you can even have them send someone along with you at a discreet distance.

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true... thanks, but ive known her for like 6 months but ive only seen her 3 times behind my parents back but i want them to know and allow it but im not sure on how to ask them
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If your parents are decent parents you won't be able to FORCE them to do anything!

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theyre strict and only tell me to focus on my studies -.-
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They make you focus on your studies??? ... Well then that confirms what Stryid was saying, they ARE good parents! ... You may not see it now, but some day you'll thank 'em!
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make your familys meet to have dinner or lunch or whatever maybe they will say yes after.

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Your parents know what's best for you! They are the only people in the world who have only YOUR best interest at heart.

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Hahaha you've got a lot to learn about the parent / child relationship. You can't "force" them to do anything. You can ask politely, but if they say no, then sorry but no is no.

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but ive known her for 6 months and i just dont wanna lose her cause my parents wont let
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When you turn 18 you can do whatever you want, until then it's their house and their rules, you have to follow their rules.
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Maybe they would consider dinner at your place with the family so that they can become familiar with her. If not then I suggest you concentrate on your studies and be thankful that you have parents that love you and aren't afraid to show it!
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true... thanks
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Try to make them happy. we hurt them a lot, us kids but why dont you try sneaking out ? As long as its not at night :)

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no way its impossible to sneak out with these kind of parents ive did it a lot and got caught a lot no matter how hard i tried and what if i het stabbed... :p
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Retta asked how old the two of you are. That may make a difference in how people respond.

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were both 16....
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That makes a difference. You cannot force your parents into anything. But as a mother of three grown sons, I think it is fine to date at 16. Have you tried calmly to sit down and talk to them?
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no im scared theyll get mad or not let me talk to her anymore
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Why are you scared? Are they that strict? What is the worse that can happen if you talk to them?
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There is obviously some reason that your parents won't let you see this girl. We don't know the entire story. As a parent, trust me, you can't force your parents to let you do ANYTHING. Sneaking out won't help. It will only make it worse.

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true... :/ thanks! and i wont sneak out ever again
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Haha! Yeah, right!
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Just say your staying after school or going to hang at the park with friends. And have her meet up with you.

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i dont wanna lie to my parents though
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Good for you. Lying will only make matters worse. If caught they WILL stop you from seeing her.
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FORCE your parents? Wrong attitude, or, at least, wrong choice of words.

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