How can I tell my aunt to please stop insulting and putting my cousins and friends against me?
Since I was young my grandma(from my dad side) has had a helper to help her clean while she cooked because she lived alone with my grandpa. I grew up with my dads side of the family because he didn't like where my mom side of the family lived because their was too much crime and he almost got shot in a robbery . We moved with my grandparents in the DR . When we moved back to the US my aunt( from my mom side) has been telling my family that I think that I am better than them because I didn't grow in the ghetto and I am more educated and care about my future. My supposedly bff started dating her son my cousin hand since thing she has been talking to her about me and my supposedly bff doesnt talk to me that much. I am tired of my aunt insulting me and saying that my grandparents helper was a maid and that having a maid is the same as having a slave. The helper was only workingin the morning and help clean the house and then left home and got paid. what should I do I am really getting tired of her insults and its very difficult to not insult back because I have a strong personality. I really don't want to hurt my moms feelings