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I think my boyfriend is cheating on me please read the description down below I nee advice!!

so today I was on my boyfriends FB and I no I shouldn't have been but I had the urge to go on so I did and I was reading him and this guys texts and the guy said I'm hanging with my girl wbu and he said hangin with my girl and the guy says nice bro but the thing is I wasn't with him cuz he sent it at 3:43 am and I wasn't even texting him he told me he was going to sleep earlier that night and I haven't seen him in month cuz he said he has things to do but really he is with his friends what should I do I need major advice!!and yes I no I should have been on his page in the first place

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You haven't seen him in a month, because "he has other things to do"??
Sweetheart, you are being used. And played.
See, when someone loves you, they want to be with YOU. They go out of their way to find time to be by your side.
I honestly can't say I blame you for snooping on his Facebook. (go ahead with the badgering). I would have done the same thing. One month? NO excuse!
Dump this a-hole.

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Girl power lol
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Exactly how I would put it. Well done. *slow clap/standing ovation*
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*high five*
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I hope she takes this advice if not.... *drama bomb!*
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He was probably just telling the other guy that so he looked like he was having fun with a girl too, not just alone

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Ya that what I thought to I just couldn't tell if that was the case or not because I've just herd some things about him and ya I no I shouldn't believe what people say so maybe that was just what happened and I just over reacted
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not a chance
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Ask him directly

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Get a little bit more proof. That kind of thing happened to me once. My friend pretended to be me and my gf almost broke up with me cuz of that. If your thinking about breaking up with him, get a bit more proof first

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sorry shawn but a month without seeing someone is not a sign of mistaken identity
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That says nothing. Why don't you talk to him? And please use punctuation. This is impossible to read.

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give him a chance . watch him don't be so close to him don't let him know that you know stay away for a while let him suspect that your sad about something he will ask you whats the problem? then tell him the truth.

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very unhealthy approach to relationships to manipulate someone's feeling with deception.
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real relationships are nothing like this. don't be desperate for a guy--- if he was interested, he'd be there. chalk it up as a learning experience, grow as a person--- dump him and go solo!! its more fun anyway.

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Honey he's cheating. Get a new man

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as far as i am concerned, just stay away from him

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To get over a guy, you must get under another.
Have fun!!! ;)

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Well yes you are right you should not have been asnoopin' but you are now experiencing the consequences of your indiscretion so a couple of things: now that you know he was not with you when saying he was with his girl, let him go because he clearly doesnt think you're her; also, guys can be pretty scummy in the "he's not that into you" department. Better you learn this valuable lesson now rather than much later when it can have a life changing outcome. call a girl friend you can trust to be on your side and who won't go blabbing your business to anyone else, have a good cry, a good scream, beat up your pillow, eat a little dark chocolate (great for a cheering up with all the anti-oxidants), Then move on and dont look back. If he asks, say "sorry but I've decided to see other people." Sad to say but he probably won't.

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Ask your self do you really like him and if you don't like him because if that find the other girl tell her and do something about it together hope i helped

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Get a little more proof so you don't make a fool out of yourself

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Dump him. Right away. I had the same thing happen to me. And i didnt dump him a few week last some chick came up to me slapped me in the face (AKA his other "gf") and said some not so nice words to me.....

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Dump him

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