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How can I tell my gf this annoys me?

this may sound a little stupid but me and my gf spoke and she couldn't keep either of us happy cause she was spending too much time on both sides so she chose to go to her friend certain days but..her friend always phones the day before on a few of them and speaks to my gf for over an hour even if she is going tomorrow. I would be ok but it's when I work and I come home ready to spend time with my gf cause I miss her..30 mins later her friend calls they speak over an hour then she is tired so goes to bed. I mean I told her...but she always just says I can't get my friend to be quiet..laughs then says sorry...

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Q: How can you tell her?
A: Apparently you both speak English.
lol.
Try this: "Honey, it's annoying me that you spend an hour on the phone with ___ when you're going to visit her the next day."

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It sounds like you already told her. Is she committed to you or friend?

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she said i'm more worth it and that she is committed to me but when her friend comes on she can't help it and she can't just not answer cause that would be rude.. ==
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Sounds like she's not worth it....

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Break phone or get in her phone, while she is sleeping and block number. It will probably take few days for her to figure it out. Lol a couple days peace is better then none. Me personally, I'd break her phone and let her know how much it bugs. Or, you have to be more firm, tell her its affecting the relationship and if it continues you are going to...

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Yeah, the same thing happened to me! I wanted to talk to my friend on Skype, but she was talking to my other friend, even though she was going over to her house for a sleepover the next day.

The best thing to do is to calmly explain how you feel, or just plan something to do with her after hiding her charger for her phone so it's dead the next day.

I suggest idea #1.

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Bring the topic up the next time you are around her and the friends she's constantly on the phone with.

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Take her phone put it on silent and when she asks, hey do you know where my phone is say nooooooo.

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Tough question. She is having an affair with the friend? Because she sounds like a lover, not a friend. Ask if she has feelings for him/her.
Relationships grow if you feel you are being nurtured, and they die when you are neglected. She needs to learn this lesson somehow. Ask her what would happen if she stopped watering a plant for two weeks. Then say, "Our relationship is that plant. I need more attention, and so do you, but we don't need it from (insert name here)." Have her tell her friend the limit is so the relationship can deepen. If the friend still keeps calling, it's intentional sabotage.

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thanks for the reply and help :) and nope her friend is female..it's awkward cause they are best friends ofc :/
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Awkward indeed
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I think Shiny is asking you if they may be having a lesbian affair.
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nope :/ they are just good friends.. == you know how girls are..lol but it's annoying
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Tell her you are really annoying and I'm about to snap LOL

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It is a little rude for her to continue to talk to her friend when you are there. Talk to her and maybe she can keep her conversation down to 5 or 10 minutes.

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I used to blurt out rather loud an rudely " wrap it up already"

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