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Is my friend too young to have a boyfriend?

she is 13 and we share EVERYTHING but she says that she is in love with this kid in school, i dont know if this is a pretective instinct because im 16 and i want to take care of her and make sure that she doent get hurt but is 13 too young to have a boyfriend??
i dont know if it is just me worring and being over pretective or not..... please help!!!
i dont want to see her ger hurt <3 i love her she is my best friend

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Unfortunately, thirteen is way too young to be in a relationship. There are so many things that are involved in a relationship that she may not understand as per now. You can advice her to take the boy as her best friend with nothing more than that. Make sure you talk to her in a way to make her understand the situation.

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Personally, I think 13 is too young; but then again people are maturing faster these days...

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I think 13 is okay as long as she is modest about it. It's okay to kiss, but not trying to swallow each other.

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depends, if she acts too young, maybe not, but if she acts like me, I'm also her age, and I'm already like counseling people and I'm in honors stuff and those things, and if she really mature, then yea, i say shes fine

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but she is like my sister and ive known her for ages and i dont want her making mistakes that will make people think differantley of her (she woudent hav sex with him or anything)

is it strange for me to care this much???
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Well yeah they can date, not much is going to happen. Take this from a 13 year old. When we have relationships all are different from different towns. Where I come from we have 13 year old whores giving bjs and then other stuff happens. But we also have the normal people that are 13 and scared to talk to eachother and give hugs and kisses and are really sensitive. My brother is 13 too and when he has a girlfriend he is too scared to talk to her. So i would say depending on the town all relationship types are different.

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