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What are some ideas for couples counseling that we could do at home? Even workshop-type ideas will help!

We've been dating for 2 years and we both have trust issues - even though no one has cheated. But we have found that when one of us hurts the other, the other will retaliate and hurt the first more... we both are guilty of it and we want to fix ourselves and have a happily ever after. We have a pretty good relationship otherwise. We would just like to have a solid relationship and stop the hurt/rebuild the trust.

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What I could advice is for the both of you to sit down and talk about your trust issues. You have to identify the reasons that make you not to trust each other maybe the reason could be because of past relationships. The best way to move forward is for both of you to open up to each other and communicate more that way you get to be honest with your spouse.

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The trust issue does stem from past relationships. Both of us had that "one" we were unfaithful to and we were open about it from the beginning. But now it seems to be holding us back and making us spin our wheels. I think right now we just need some outside help... but neither of us have ANY extra money at the end of the month.
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it might just be you and him are just to much alike and also to vindictive ! good luck ! life is to precious and short for ugliness !

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We are too much alike. I finally figured it out a couple days ago when we had a very, very ugly confrontation. He didn't see it either until I pointed it out. I'm happy I figured out what the problem was... at least in the end of our tiffs. But we both know we need to find ways to strengthen our trust and bond.
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i hope you can and it not escalate out of control ! it dont take much to go to jail for D.V.O and or for a E.P.O nor does it take much to KILL or be KILLED ! you have to decide if it is all worth it ! yall might be fighting a losing battle ! i would say when yall start to argue and fight to walk away- BUT -i had a lady < not > that would argue all the time - i would walk away ; she would follow ;i would go outside ; she would follow and chase me all around the outside of the house ; causing BIG scenes ! she was jealous and 100 % controling ! cood luck !
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