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relationship help! How can i get my ex girl friend back even though i messed up big time?

I was with my girl for a month when my jealousy got the best of me. I tried to fight her ex for almost no reason she left me cause of that and i just need some ideas on how i might get the girl of my dreams back.

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You can start by apologizing to the ex maybe & she will know your serious & apologize to her... I don't know the circumstances of the fight so idk if it wil work

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To get her back, you need to apologize. Let her know that you are sorry for what happened and ask her to give you a second chance. Try to woo her back. Get some more tips from http://www.ehow.com/how_5812461_win-her-back.html.

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You probably can't get her back. Learn something important from this and take that lesson into your next relationship. Most girls would have reacted the way your girlfriend did. Violent, out-of-control guys are not in any girl's future is she's smart.

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Does she talk to you still?
I'm going to be completely honest here. If I were her, I wouldn't give you the time of day, no matter what you did (to fix it).
It's time to chalk this up as a lesson learned.
We don't fight other people. NO matter what.
We show we are mature, and walk away from situations like this.
You learned the hard way, but let the girl go, and move on.

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actually me and her both talk frequently we were friend for awhile before we dated but thanks for your input
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Hi, showme. Well, I'd love to help, but the details are a little vague. I assume you've always been jealous over her and this probably wasn't the first time you'd shown it? Could this have been "the last straw" (so to speak) for her because you guys had talked about it before and things kept happening? What did her boyfriend do, honey, that made you try to fight him? When she left, what did she say to you? If you could tell me those things, I would love to try to help you.

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High sissymom. Doing good. Yesterday my daughter answered question about kids and iPods phone. I answered then someone said something. I told my daughter to read and she put in comment. 16 years old, her response was honest and made me proud. Really cool. School is good, and job ended. Not worried though, I know who is taking care of me.
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It was smart phone. How do teenagers use smart phone? Do they use for homework?
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Well, I haven't talked to you in a coon's age! Hi, yourself. I'm glad you're doing well. I just voted for one of Yin's answers today (well actually yesterday now) LOL. Hope she's doing well. So now you've got your daughter at it, huh? Well, good things do run in the family. I'm sure she did make you proud, James, but I'm sure you've made her proud a lot, too. I'm sorry about your job ending. I will pray for you. And, yes, you may not know what tomorrow holds, but you know who's holding you. Praise the Lord. "I will never leave you nor forsake you,: says the Lord.
How do teenagers use smart phones & do they use them for homework? First, I don't know if I've ever seen one. (Oh, I'm sure I have and just didn't have a clue as to what the smart little things was. And actually I believe they do the homework for them, if I'm not mistaken. LOL
Running to bed now. It's 4:30 a.m. here. Great to hear from you!
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No, actually according to my daughter. They use the phones to copy homework, lemons, which are sex stories, send pics to each other, if you know what I mean, and lots of other stuff. My answer to it was get basics. Text, calls, and can take pics but can't send or receive them. Then make teen use home CPU so you can monitor them. Then some guy tried to com pair that to him getting my bank account numbers and more. I said I actually watch my kids and am better then friend. Gave him three reasons. Then told him to call the cops cause I actually know what my kids are doing and were they are. Being sarcastic. I also said that privacy for kids is ridiculous, that there is no privacy tell they grow up. Anyways, my daughter reads and then tells him honestly what teens do with phones with all the bells and whistles. It was cool. She also said that its annoying when my dad takes my phone and reads it. But she knows I do that cause I care, etc. It was cool, and if you get chance to read, you'll see. About the job, we knew it was temporary from get go. 600 cars at 100 cars a week. But I got good reference and just cool break. Made some good money, of course gave God what was His. All the glory. I'm happy either way. Now I can find job what I'm going to school for. Anyways, talk soon. And Yin is doing great. Shell tell you.
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Hey, you guys give good answers, can y'all go to my page and look at my last question and tell me what you think? Thanks
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Ok 1st of all work with the jealous issue, you gotta fix that, once you do, apologize with the ex and then with the girl, I really wouldn't give much chance for it to work, jealousy is a really bad thing in love, not anyone would forgive it, i don't forgive it myself but still... i only see less than 50% chance it might work, about 37%.

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Say youre sorry and take her out for dinner at a fancy resturant

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I don't want to sound selfish but my ex did the same to me. I still hold it against him and I told him id never really forgive him or date him again. sorry if this bothers you but if I were her id probably never accept his apology for fighting over something so dumb. tell her how much of a jerk you were and maybe that will change her image of you because she thinks your a mean and self centered person. hope it works out.

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Tell her you only did it cause you love her! I'd be impressed if my man did that for me! Maybe she's mad cause she still has feelings for him. If so you deserve better! I hope things work out for you one we or another. Good luck!

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