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How to deal with people who put you down?

so I got this skilled job and I am very happy about it coz not only its a career job, I can also apply for immigrant after some years. I know I got some personality issues and this guys sadly my cousins they give some side comments that maybe I can't do the job or I will screw it after some time. I know I've done this before on my previous jobs coz I'm not a likable guy and always end up the one who is bullied or hates, that makes me anxious on how I work on the job. anyway any advice for me guys how can I cope with things and to have a new start.

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For all you know they might be jealous
Since you look like a better person for turning your life around
In all honesty, they don't want u to succeed. U can tell them to go screw them selves

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For starters, the worst thing you can ever do to yourself is to take their comments and attitudes to heart. Just be blind to their actions and deaf to their comments and always tell yourself that the only person that matters is yourself and what you do. There is nothing better than proving your enemies wrong. By the way, not everyone will like you or what you have so do not fret over nothing.

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You seem really nice!!!! There#039;s no reason people shouldn#039;t like you! Just chill and remember that hate hurts the hater more than the hated..

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I know on myself that I'm really a nice person. Since I work here abroad I became independent and have to rely myself, the thing is we're not always in the mood for everyday living sometimes were out of tune and sadly we caught off guard and I got a bad impression to them that lingers. It's very hard thinking that people who know me really are back home. I hope people around me are like you, people who are not shallow and thinking what's the side of others. Thanks
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People always put people down because they are jealous & insecure. Their are people out there that just don't want you to succeed, so I say keep on going, you won't be able to hear them from up there. Good luck.

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I don't find them jealous and insecure, the thing is they don't trust for what I achieve and they think I can't handle this thing after some time. It's bad that people think of u lowly overtime that they didn't even know people progress after some time.
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Well, all you can do is show them you've changed. Words don't mean much bit actions do.
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Ignore them. Your the man!

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