My bf just broke up with me because I told him I will be a shot girl.
We are dating for 6 months. I'm 24 and he's 23. I'm a recent graduate and do a freelance event job. However, there're not many event jobs for me because I have very little experience but I like this job and will be able to gain more money than office job (salary in my country is around 500$ as I've a bachelor's degree). The problem is my father told me last week that he's having money problem. He is 60 now and his business is not making any profit anymore. Moreover, he doesn't have any saving; and have to pay for monthly home and car mortgage payment. Therefore, I decided to be a shot girl as a part time job at a nightclub that allows the customers to touch ONLY my hands, legs, and shoulder. My salary and tips will be around 1,100$ which I think is fine for me for taking care of my father and myself. I told my bf and he hated my idea. I'm making him feel ashamed ("what if my friends see you there?"). So he broke up with me. Now I'm really confused and shocked. Is it that bad for being a shot girl to help out my father's debt? I understand that there are some people who look down on this job but in my situation I have to sacrifice something for something better and I'm not ashamed.