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Dad will not let me date and I have been secretly dating and he wants to meet my parents. What do I do?

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Does your bf know you're not supposed to be dating him? How does your mom feel? If you can talk with her, she might be able to smooth things over a bit.

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You should tell him that it is not yet the right time, since your parents are against it. If he likes/loves you, he will understand your situation and be a little more patient. In the meantime, you can talk to your parents and let them know that you are ready to date, and once you have cleared that, your boyfriend can comfortably meet your parents.

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Tell your bf that. Then try to convince your parents to allow you to date.

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tell your bf abt the fact that you cant date he will understand why he cant meet ur parents

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Ya just talk to your mom about it

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Moms are amazing they understand everything as long as your a girl and they can keep awesome secrets. Just ask her about it and how she would feel If you had a boyfriend

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"Secretly dating"??
Yeah... you leave the house for 2hours & dad doesn't know?
Bull$---.
I sense something wrong with your story, or you have a warped idea of what "a date" is.

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the consequences to your disobedience. you should have told him beforehand. because of this he might become disillusioned or disappointed. it says a lot of his character. most guys and men don't wish to meet the parents unless he's serious about. he's a keeper and a rarity.

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Get your parents super happy then drop the news

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You don;t mention your age but I bet your parents don;t want you to "date" because you are too young. Why not just accept your parent's decision and wait instead of unleashing a whole host of problems for yourself? That would make life easier for everyone.

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The real question is - are you having se.x with him? Are you under 18? If not, or if so, talk to your mom - assuming you have a good relationship with her - you need to understand a lot of the details and dangers of unprotected se.x. If your bf wants to meet your parents - that's a plus for him - and your mom will see that - and she most likely knows how to handle your dad.

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You asked the question! Why don't you answer the questions asked?

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Make sure he's the guy kuz if not you'll end up looking bad at the end

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