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Is she done with me?

In March & April I was dating this woman... She is 28 & I'm 17, but I look like I'm 25 . We first meet on Facebook months before I met her in person. We always planned of meeting up & it never happened... Finally on my 17th birthday she came over to my house, and I'm sure you can imagine what happen... Anyway, after that we talked everyday and saw each other every other day . During the time we saw each other, we had allot of sex. We had fun, went on dates, we had a great connection .

About her:

She is in debt, but still is a million air. She has nice cars & house . She's a single mother, and isn't to involve in her daughter's life. She has allot of problems due to the money debt she has. She drinks & smokes weed all the time. Before I started seeing her, she recently a few months back got out of a 5 year relationship with a man her age. She lives by "forever young 18" ....

The last time I saw her was in the middle of May . But for many weeks, she won't return my calls, texts, and Facebook messages . From May to today we've talk on the phone twice .

Last time on the phone was a few days ago and we sort of had plans meeting up for the 4th but it didn't go through... The other time we talked on the Phone was a few weeks ago when she informed me she was in Rehab...

Main point of my story, why isn't she talking to me anymore and what should I do?

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australis

I'm afraid so Royal..I believe she found you exciting for a while as you helped keep her mind off her troubles,made her feel young at heart and she lived carefree moments when with you.You were her Toy Boy and logic usually takes a back seat in such relationships.Sorry to say Royal but she never intended on staying with you no matter if you look 25 or 35.She got what she needed from you and now she no longer has any use for you.You have your whole life ahead of you and you had some experience..so just leave it at that for now.

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Hi my friend! I just saw your hello on one of my comments. So just in case you don't go back to it, I wanted to tell you hello also. BTW, GREAT answer. I say you were right on the dot! Bullseye! LoL! :0)
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Sandra, are you speaking from experience?
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Thank you yin.I think I was a bit to harsh though my friend.
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Funny Hondo!!.Actually this was not my type of question Lol..I surprised my self.
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I'm trying to cheer you up! More stupid remarks yet to come...
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Awww..you see that's why I like you so much Hondo.
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Sandra I once slept with a handsome French man. I was 20, he was 45. Very handsome & sexy. It only happened once & when we were to have a date next he cancelled. I struck that down to not age appropriate in public but enjoyed the night that we did share without wanting more as Even I could see his family & peers would not have accepted it. I had a 3 month old & this man wasn't in daddy mode at this stage in his life to be in a relationship & bring up someone else's child. I understood why he cancelled the dinner & didn't expect anything more.
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Wait for a while...it will be tough but wait and see

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Maybe your just TOO YOUNG! I would break up with her, she can go to jail because she had a sexual relationship with a teen!

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Im REALLY sorry if I was too harsh. I hope for the best with u, :)
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Im really sorry if I was too harsh , I hope for the best for u :)
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She may still be in rehab & not allowed to have phone calls.

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She's done with you dude!! Sorry but that's the truth. She wasn't planning on stay with you to begin with. Women like her are only out for self gratification and when she's done getting from you what she wants then she move on to the next victim. I'm a woman and I don't like these kind of women but I know some

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Royalknight, you did say you were 17 and she was 28 when you two had sex, correct? She could go to jail for that.. But anyways, she's probably still remaining in rehab. Good luck! :)

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All this for sex! Find someone your own age.

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Leave her.
This relationship doesn't sound safe,
"Older than you"
"drinks, and smokes weed."
"having sex with a teen"
Seriously, it doesn't seem good to me.

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She has her life issues to sort out as you know. She actually went where she shouldn't have. Now you are so mesmerized by her that she has another problem to deal with. How to let you go back to your teenagers life before she whisked in & out of your life without hurting you. Love affairs that shouldnt happen do but reality then sets in & people realize they can't continue it. Your life is a far cry from her adult life she lives. She realizes she should never have entered your life the way she did. Use this as a stepping stone & remember you may go out of your league for a visi but you can't live in an adult world till you have lived as one. This love or infatuation you feel will pass & someone more appropriate will come along & distract you from missing this one that has disappeared in a puff of smoke.

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