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I don't want a fancy relationship

I don't want to go on fancy dates or for him to get me gifts. I'm not that kind of girl who likes to be showered with gifts and go to fancy restraunts. I want a relationship where we can just enjoy each others company while eating junk food and playing video games and talking. I also don't want him to buy me things and vise versa. I want to have the type of relationship where we don't have to buy each other things to show we care do each other, how do I tell my boyfriend this?

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Just tell him that he doesn't need to shower you in gifts, that his company is enough. I'm sure his wallet will thank you.

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You need first to make your boyfriend understand what type of a girl you are. Instead of telling him directly, you can come up with a suggestion like "why don't we stay indoors and play some video games?" Keep on suggesting more things that you prefer and with time, sit him down and tell him what you think.

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Just be honest he will either respect your feelings and agree or move on. A relationship should be how you described. You should show your affection through loving, caring,and just enjoying yalls time together. There's no need for gifts if you know each other feel about one another.
GOOD LUCK

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A lot of guys reading this are going to be asking you for your phone number ;-)

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Just say it im pretty sure any boyfriend would like a girlfriend like you lol!!

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