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Is it ok for a 15 almost 16 year old girl to be in a relationship with a 28 almost 29 man?

lol...........i say no but she says i am jealous whats you opinion.............

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You know when people say age is just a number? I always reply with "And jail is just a place"
That's Sick.

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I dont think so!.....look back in time.... The ages at were peooples got married and pregnant and so and so....there was no jail time.....its just now that society had changed everything around......so bad ,,,,too bad.....very bad....
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No!!!!!!

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that's so weird no way. wanna get in trouble. id say date some 1 age 15-17. im just saying thou.
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Oh my.. No.. Just.. No.

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Considering the fact that he's 13 years older than her... I'd say no. That's quite messed up actually...

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I can understand there are a lot of good reasons why you might want to be in such a relationship, but I guarantee there are no good reasons why he wants to be in it.

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No!!!!

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No, this is not okay.
Another question similar to this one, was asked last night. Check out the answers here:
http://www.ask.com/answers/378591041/someone-in-pa-help

PLEASE show your friend this!!

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I found it because it was one of my recently answered questions.
You can find those if you click on the "My Q & A" on the left hand side of the screen.
I copied and pasted the link from the page, to here.
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ok, thank you.
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I didn't even have to think about my answer. NO! A fifteen year difference is no good at all. That could actually be quite dangerous. He could be planning something unpleasant....

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Ew. Gross. No.

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It's illegal for a minor to date someone that is eighteen and over. I would say no....

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No

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No and if they have sex its statutory rape on the 28 yr olds end

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seriously you had to think about that?! that's just plain out wrong. so uh no

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Well I think that's just a little to old.. I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 20. People think that's bad so I think 13 years apart it pretty bad.

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your boyfriend can easily end up in prison for child molestion
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Yes but that is if I have sex with him, which I would never do because I'm only 13. So it's perfectly find if we don't do any of that stuff and I didn't plan on it.
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What does your mum think!
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I can't tell her..he lives in California and I live in Indiana. She wouldn't understand.
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korirose
dude im sorry but thats not ok thats worse than her question you are 13 you where 12 last year.... you shouldnt date anyone please break up with him or tell a teacher or your parents and see what they think...
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Nasty! NOOOOOO!

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n. o.

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hell naw that aint ok hes old enough to be your brother >:(

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well yeah that lol
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lol......................dats was my reaction................
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Nope nope nope /:

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That's bad, he can go to jail.

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not unless he wants to go to jail

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I dont think that is okay. 1. Its illegal 2. he could be her father! Thats gross!

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no... it's illegal. you should find someone ur age.

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WTF lol no, this girl is out of her mind he could be her brother ._. ewww that's just nasty.

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my exact reaction...........................lol........
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hell to the no, you don't know what you are doing

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All he want is the cookie. He can play better games on you that the high school guys uk now. U think the guys in high school is awful and all........ well dating him is 100000000 times worst!!

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that's sick and definitely not ok and this is comin from a 16 yr old girl

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NO. I shouldn't have to say anything else. :)

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no your friend is too young but if she is certain keep an eye on her

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If things heat up, things could get illegal. He is an adult. You are a minor. There are laws in place. I understand that there could be some legitimate affection here but waiting may be your only option. Some say its creepy or gross and i wont lie it makes me raise my eyebrows. Take care and remember, a little optimism wont hurt.

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NO thats called babysiting hoe

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no you are not ready for that age yet tell her you need someone in your age

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well, it's your decision if you want to be with this guy or not and love has no age.. but people will look at you a little weird because it's not often that this happens.

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If the mind its ready and mature enough for some things,,,then yes,,,but unfortunately,,,in this country hypocrisy overflows in some laws....and they made it illegal,,,again UNFORTUNATELY....

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Absolutely, when he's 39 and she's 23 if they still find each other to be good romantic partners that's perfectly normal. Until that time, I'm sorry to say that that is absolutely disgusting.

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with adults, age is just a number, but when you're a teenager, it's kind gross. imagine a senior in highschool dating a kid in preschool. its just wrong. when you're...27 for example... dating somebody that is 40 is fine, but not now. and its illegal. just think of it this way, most things are illegal for a reason.

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No, he could go to jail since you're under 18 . It's very disgusting to date someone that old .

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hell to the no

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I know I am going to get hate for this, but, I find it perfectly fine for you two to be together, no matter what the age, love is love. So I say yes, be together.

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i dont think its a good idea hes at a different place in his life hes probably been with atleast 4 times as manny people as you and the relationship will have way less importance and meaning to him than for you and he probably wont be too worried about ruining it

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No.! unless they are in really in love.

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No. You are in totally different places psychologically. I would be VERY concerned about a 28 year old that wants to date a 15 year old. Borderline pedophile. I'm sure you are flattered, if you are the young person in this equation, but you need to spend your time with people you have more in common with that are within a couple years of your age:) Good luck!

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No that is not ok. In fact you aren't if you aren't even 18 he can be charged for rape.

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no. thirteen years is okay if you are older but not at your age.

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heck no!!

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no! unless you want him to go to jail!

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And I thought 14 and 18 was bad....

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definitely no

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Okay well 1. It's illegal 2. He's old enough to be your father and 3. That's just plain wrong!

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Im 15 also, but i have to say no, its illegal and nasty, theres nothing good coming from a man that older than you

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Depends if you guys are having sex

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No thats not even close to right

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girl needs help.. NOOO!

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um not really, depending where you live I am pretty sure that is illegal because you're still a minor.

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Well like everyone else has stated yea it is illegal considering 15 is still qualifies as a minor, and depending on the person and their feelings Id not technically say no but Id be careful. He might be taking advantage of your inexperience and innocents. Don't do anything you'll regret. If it were to be found out by the wrong person(s) it would ruin both lives, the guy would be put out as a registered pedophile and it would ruin both reputations, also if you were to have sex and get pregnant it would ruin you financially and would just be all out bad. But if you were of legal age but still the thirteen years age difference it wouldn't be exactly "gross" ya get what im saying?
Depending on the person and the feelings, It would be best to not be in that type of relationship because of such huge risks and challenges you'd probably face.
So it not a good thing, but who am I to judge love or anyone else at that, if it were to be legitimate.

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just say no..........

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well... This is easy... NO..

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if they really do like each other they should wait until she is an adult too

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That girl has issues!!!!! NONONONONO

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