I can't explain this again..I've already answered this for a guy who needed to know. And that took me an hour to write. All I know is this...the job is on him to do it right and he is much more nervous than you are. All I can say is if it isn't pleasant, give him another's chance by saying, " That was nice, but can we do this again a little softer?" Sometimes guys get nervous and overdo the first kiss.